This might be weird to ask but I’m just curious. My wife and I entered into separation at the start of the year and by March she said she wanted a divorce. But she still texts me to ask questions and advice as if we were still married about simple things. For example, she received a doctor’s bill for her annual check up. The bill clearly stated where to go online to pay for it and how to pay. But she still took a picture and asked “ how do I pay for this?” And she also a questioned about how to do something for mom’s cell phone account and she did the exact same thing the month before with her phone but she asked me how to do it for her mom’s phone and never had to ask how to do it with her phone.
I feel it’s weird. I thought when a wife wanted a divorce she cut herself off from her husband. But my wife still looks to me for advice and guidance. So is there that chance that she still has feelings for me? I’m confused about it and I wanted to get some advice from others before I bring it up to her.
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I think she will always have feelings for you. I don't know how to properly answer this so I will give u an answer based on my experience. I broke up with my ex because our relationship was just bad. As hard as it was to let go and as bad as I loved him, I knew he wasn't for me. However, when I finally had the strength to let go, I still wanted some sort of contact with him. Mainly a friendship. He finally cut it all the way off because he thought us being friends would make me change my mind about being in a relationship with him and it didn't.
Your ex probably loves you and still wants a friendship but feels a marriage is just not right. And if that's not it, maybe she's just having a hard time fully letting go even though she wanted a divorce.
It’s possible. Or maybe she’s just been lonely. Once she finds a new man, that should stop.
Well she has been spending time with her friends a lot. She told me as much and I know she went on a trip to NYC with them. So I don’t know if she is lonely or not.