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Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family

Alright... I feel I should clarify I am not a professional writer by any means, and these are just gonna be my own stories I simply make for fun. I am actually having trouble incorporating these characters into specific stories, but I definitely do have their personalities and general vibe figured out.

But I basically have a plan for three main characters: Richard, Julio, and Jarius. Their connection together is that they're all roommates living in a house together and need each other to pay the rent. I don't have specific ages for them but they're in their 20s. They all have pretty different personalities and a lot of the humor is derived from how each one of them acts to different situations. They often travel and go on adventures together, and in the process get themselves into all sorts of weird situations. I would label these stories as more or less sitcom style comedies. With maybe some darker humor as well.

Onto the character descriptions though...

Richard: He is the pessimist of the group. He is not very smart at all and often makes all the wrong decisions, but sticks by those decisions no matter what! He is very hot headed and aggressive and arrogant, and his antics often bring trouble to everyone around him. He usually is the one to move the plot forward because of his impulsive nature to do any stupid thing that comes to mind.

Julio: He is the optimist of the group. He is also not very smart and just sort of goes along with what everyone else is doing, not really thinking for himself. He however is quite innocent, naive, and gullible. His nature is usually quite passive. He usually is kind of the comic relief of the group.

Jarius: He is the realist of the group. He is actually quite smart, or at least has common sense. He usually is pretty sarcastic, bored/uninterested in things, and just sick of everyone's shit. He usually is completely against Richard's ideas but goes along with them anyway because the trio has nothing to do. They banter a lot.

Scammers (future fakers too) can fake a relationship and even get money from her. They are still playing their game while and after having sex.

Players are the ones that do and say anything to get into our pants. That's their game, just getting pumping and dumping. They made the girl think a connection has been made.

Both are users. But do you consider scammers (con-artists) worse than players? Or same?