Why do my husband's exes want him now?

[Anonymous]

I got tired of the disrespect today. My husband don’t talk to anyone of his exes but it seems like they don’t have anyone to run back too. My husband spent 5 minutes arguing with his ex daughter about having his photos taken down from her page. She won’t do it! I asked her to take his photos down from her page and she tells me that I’m a disgrace to his family. She tells me I’m an embarrassment to his family and that my husband loved her mother.

I’m tired! My husband has no connection with the ex but they feel like they can go through a family member for the purpose of drama and picking with me.

I’m not understanding! He just want his photos off the girl page and she won’t take them down at all

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+1 y

Thanks everyone! I’m on another one of his exes ass currently! He never let a female disrespect me but these females always try to return when its nowhere to run to

[Bre_0611]

I don't want to tell you to just flat out leave your husband, but I will speak from my personal experience.

These types of situations do not always get easy as matter of fact, some of them don't even change. My ex's friends, his mother, and even his exes despised of me. Just like you're experiencing, the moment I got with him I picked at for being with him and it was this way for the 4 years we were together. There were friends of his that never even saw my face in person, yet still didn't want me with him. Any time I would ask why, I would never get an answer and it was all "just because". After a while, you will begin to exhaust from this situation to the point the relationship will fail. The disrespect will not end until he puts his foot down.

You should only be able to tell him ONE TIME, and if he doesn't handle it from there, I'm sorry to tell you but you may have to consider leaving him alone because the relationship is eventually going to go south and there will always be tension. This type of drama just isn't worth it... trust me.

[Asker]

Yeah we far from this one

[Asker]

I accidentally responded to your comment below on the other post lol I don't know how this happened

[Bre_0611]

Lol it's okay. This site can be tricky

[petitedollbabee]

They might see how much better he’s doing now, and want him back. It just comes down to jealousy.

[Qdbrown]

Divorce and dating is complicated. Exes do not want to see their former guy getting on with his life. The want him messed up and unhappy. At very least she just wants to cause drama and trouble. At worse, she wants him back.

Your husband needs to have his family avoiding the ex.-wife. If everyone ignores the drama, she will quit trying. If she can sense his anger, and know the kids are getting to him, she will keep it up. That's cheap entertainment for her.

Many middle-aged women are finding that dating after 30 is not fun anymore. There are a lot of one night stand possibilities, but long-term opportunities are getting sparse. Men are getting smart to that stuff. As a result it's a dating wasteland for older single people. After all the trial and error, her ex sounds better.

[Asker]

They was never married but she was married to her child father but I think they were planning on getting remarried. She’s still dating him but still causing problems. His auntie cussed her out yesterday.

[Asker]

Sorry the delayed response I was busy but I’m sorry for what happened and what you’re experienced. He dropped his friends and he made changes because it’s stressful to be putting up with unhappy people

[Summeroflove]

They’re just jealous. Because he found a better woman then themselves probably.


They feel entitled to him I suppose. He needs to have boundaries and if they become harassing or stalking. It needs to go to the police. But hopefully it won’t go that far. Or a order or protection.


Some people are pains in the ass if someone refuses to do something. Not much you can do.

[Asker]

Thank you! I got fed up last night! When they can’t play games anymore you become a target. It’s certain shit that just gotta stop

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome. Yes. Don’t let them walk over you and your husband needs to have good boundaries.

Unfortunately he can’t cut the bitches out of his life if he has kids with him. But it does not mean they’re entitled to make him put up with their shit.

[Asker]

They don’t have kids together but she has kids with her other child father who she is still dating

[Summeroflove]

Oh. Well. Then he can ask her to just leave him and you both alone. That he wants nothing to do with her and doesn’t want to play games.

[Summeroflove]

As I said. They’re probably jealous because he’s with someone better then themselves. He’s not up late at night crying over them like they probably are lol.

He didn’t deserve them. He deserves you

[Summeroflove]

That’s my guess anyways. I’m not psychic. But it’s a good guess. Lol.

I think he needs to cut contact. Sometimes it’s good if someone can’t be a adult and wants to be toxic and play games. They’re better off out of your life

[Asker]

Thank you and he definitely cut off contact! It’s a lot of toxic around us

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome! Good for him. If she keeps finding ways to harass him he might need to start taking some legal action. Like a restraining order or something.

Hopefully she’s smart enough to leave him be

[Bethany22]

I don't understand either! I mean, women are the most valuable the younger they are, so why are they trying to get back with men that their more valuable selves tossed aside? Like, they had more options back when they were their youngest and prettiest, so if there was something wrong with him back then, I assume she wouldn't want to be caught dead having to settle for him now that she's slightly less pretty than she was before.

[fembotnpc777]

Tag her in a picture of you on top of your man so it's on her facebook page.

[Asker]

I did that a few months ago and do you know the little female likes my photo. I even added her on Facebook to let her know we are married. She’s very disrespectful

[fembotnpc777]

She's dying on the inside, trust me. You can also put a restraining order on her, so that she's not allowed to be around you.

[Asker]

He told her to take the photos down of him even his mom asked and she still refuses. She tells me last night that I don’t know my husband and that my husband loved her mother. I’m confused here.

[fembotnpc777]

She sounds like a crack ho, not gonna lie.

[Asker]

I cussed her out last night and she kept deleting my comments. She then tells me that im an embarrassment to his family. I should have screenshotted it

[fembotnpc777]

then she can go to her own family

[fembotnpc777]

Teller her to go lick a stripper pole

[Asker]

Lol she and her family funny anyways

[inhua]

sometimes people don't appreciate something until they've lost it.

[sheikalana]

There's a lot of women out there who's only attracted to guy who are already taken.

[bamesjond0069]

Usually because the man is a catch and they made a mistake. Just means you have a catch.

[JesseJayNeak]

Because they’re annoyed that he moved on and chose you

[Asker]

Right! Now suddenly since they can’t play games with anyone. They causing problems

[Twalli]

People divorce wives, not children.

[Qdbrown]

But Exes are good at using the children against the spouse. Kids just want their family back.

I do agree, you don't have Ex-children.

[Asker]

@Qdbrown they don’t have kids together but she’s with the child currently. She added my husband auntie on Facebook not long ago. Last night we got into it after she threw shade on her auntie post when she posted a picture of my husband as a family photo. His auntie says she doesn’t talk to her but comment on some posts on her page about him. I posted photos of the ex with her babydaddy because they still together. My husband aunt blocked her immediately because she being messy.

[KrakenAttackin]

Report the posting of photos.

[Con29]

Jealousy

[Asker]

His auntie said that as well