I've known this man for 5 weeks. I started falling in love with him, but he doesn't want to commit. He gave me these reasons:
1. I am going back to my country in six months, and we are not going further.
2. I am disappointed. I finally found someone (you) I can connect with, but I am leaving soon. I am disappointed with fate because it is playing me.
3. I want to experience having a girlfriend, even for a few months.
4. You are the longest kiss I've had, and I love getting intimate with you.
5. I am confused about my feelings, but I know how to show love.
6. You are getting too fast and falling so hard.
7. I am serious about you and have shown on his social media that he is not texting other women but only me.
8. I do not want you to love me; it will destroy your heart, especially when I go back to my country.
When we are together, we are really both happy and enjoy each other's company. He even sacrificed five hours of travel just to meet me in the city every month. We travel together, do fun activities together, have long talks, and are very comfortable. And I know when we kissed, there was emotion and a love connection. When we had sex, I knew it was not just sex; there was intimacy, and we always hugged and slept with each other. We always have long, warm hugs and kisses. We always text and call each other.
I love him, however, and these thoughts are hurting me. What should I do if the man I love doesn't want to commit to me? Pls advise.
