He doesn't wanna commit to me and doesn't let any other guy commit to me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

Stop talking and dealing with him. He wants you, without committing to you. So he keeps other guys from having you too-

NO. It doesn't work that way, lol. If he refuses to commit, that's your sign to move on. He won't like it: tough. That's his fault for not dating you

[Anonymous]

You need to release that narrative from your brain. “He won’t let me”, girl.. YOU won’t let you. There is absolutely no obligation to keep dealing with him except for the ones you create in your own mind. The man doesn’t want to commit, this is something you know for fact and don’t have to question. So move on to someone who will. I’m sure that’s not the answer you want, but no self respecting woman would encourage you to continue on with him.

[dudeinohio]

You are an adult. He can't "not let" you do anything. Commit to who you want

[Woodchuck411]

I need to come Point Blank and tell him shit or get off the pot

[Alli39]

Leave. If he can't commit he doesn't get to stop you from living your life in the meantime while he figures himself out. (Like, feel free to talk to her about your concerns first, but at the end of the day, he's leading you on, regardless of his intentions, that that's not really ok.)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump him, cut off all contact with him, and find a guy that you match with who will commit.

[LazerBean]

Move on.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about it