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Search Results: how to be confident
How to not be bothered by your physical ugliness?
I'm ugly. All my life people have tried their best to let me know that I'm not beautiful. Every time I'm attending a social gathering or a family get together, my elders would pass cruel jokes on how I look. I used to...
Anonymous
(18-24) What type of flirting approach works best for you?
This is for both men and women. If someone were to approach you who was interested in a date, what type of opening would work best for you to be interested back? Maybe it's the humor approach, maybe confident and cool,...
u Girls, Are most women not interested in dating?
I don't know if there is something about me that is unappealing or if most women in my city are taken, but I can't find any place where there are women who will even look in my direction. I've been trying to be more...
Anonymous
(30-35) Profile Picture Analysis (Unserious!!!)
PROFILE PICTURE SAYS A LOT! We'll do men first since majority of profiles here are blue. Call it gender discrimination! In this quite humourous post, I'll interpret whose profile signifies what based on their profile...
fonduegirl
Guru Age: 25 How do women want to be approached?
I hate online dating, but think im confident enough to power through and approach a girl. HOW DOES THIS SOUND? I say hello, say i like her outfit or something like that and start a basic convo about movies. Then I say, "I...
Master_Vader94
Xper 1 Age: 31 Why are people bothered by black women being confident?
Are black women supposed to feel inferior, not like or love themselves or walk with their heads down? I don't get it.
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Have you ever worn a revenge dress? Did it work?
A revenge dress is one you wear after a break-up, typically in regards to someone who treated you poorly in your relationship or cheated on you. The dress is either super sexy or a total knockout designed to bring maximum...
Anonymous
(36-45) Which Looks Better on Men, Leather Pants or Pajamas?
If you saw two men in public, one was wearing leather pants, and the other one was wearing pajamas, which one would you find more attractive and why Such as which one screams confident, and he knows what he is doing in life
UrbanLeather
Xper 2 Age: 31 How do I make a good first impression after a long time to a guy as a shy girl?
It's a complicated situation but me and this guy don't know if we want to be together or just be friends. I've known him for 6 years and we are in a relationship right now after being best friends for so long. It's a long...
french_omelette
Xper 2 Age: 19 Why are younger men attracted to older women? Seeking some perspective?
I'm 41, but I look younger thanks to good genes and staying fit. I'm a mom to two amazing girls under 9, and although I'm separated, I carry myself with a joyful, confident, and sassy energy. Lately, I've noticed that I'm...
Tulipep1
Xper 3 Age: 42 Pretty. Petty. Perfected…..
So, you thought I was just another sweet, naive girl you could fool? Cute. Really, it’s adorable how confident you were while stringing together your manipulative little lies. You must’ve felt so powerful. See, that’s the...
Do you think your partner should have the right to check your phone?
Ladies and gentleman, I just want to let you know something important I have learned over my many years of online dating and meeting men online. Please check your partner or husband's phone. If he is cheating on you,...
Anonymous
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laxfour2
Xper 1 Age: 29 I can’t help but have some prejudice thoughts against most of my gf’s kind. Should I just tell her how I feel?
Honestly, there’s so much racism going on in the US now (See it all the time on social media. Always something new) that I kind of just feel like I can’t trust most white folks. Like I remember one time being in the...
Anonymous
(30-35) What’s your go-to outfit when you want to feel super confident?
Something cool? Stylish? Cute? Have you ever thought about it before? 🤔
Kayla45
Guru Age: 29 Should you date a woman that’s been other men?
Like another man has been inside your woman, should you date her? The whole thought of that is sad, like she was in love with another man and shared a bond and she enjoyed being with him. Another man gets to boast he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people keep telling me to work on my confidence so much?
every time I ask my friends if I am ugly, they always tell me that I look fine and that I need to work on my confidence. If I ask them to rate me 1-10, they would never give me a number but just that I need to be more...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was my friend right for insulting my friend and I for being thin? Why we insulted her body?
One time we’re going to a pool party and we all discussed about our bathing suits. Let’s call my friends S and L. So after we hung up and left her a message, L and I were talking about S’s size and if she would look good...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this too masculine?
I’m always doing things on my own and lifting heavy things without anyone’s help at work. I got rejected so many times in the past when asked for help so I learned to do things myself instead of waiting on people. My...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Should a confident woman make the first move on a shy guy if he’s clearly too afraid to approach her?
Let’s say she’s interested in a guy, but he’s super shy and never makes the first move. He might like her too but is too afraid to act. Should she take the initiative, or is it still “the guy’s job”?
Anonymous
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