I can’t help but have some prejudice thoughts against most of my gf’s kind. Should I just tell her how I feel?

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Honestly, there’s so much racism going on in the US now (See it all the time on social media. Always something new) that I kind of just feel like I can’t trust most white folks. Like I remember one time being in the parking lot. And there’s houses on the other side. And I overheard the most disgusting racist rants I have ever heard when I was younger about Hispanic people (I’m Hispanic). And it just always stuck with me that some white folks would pretend to be kind to you, but actually think of the most horrible things imaginable behind your back. I Even worked with racists who were white. And they were confident in it. And even my girlfriend had racist thoughts when I first met her, and I can’t help, but reinforces my feelings that most white people are just inherently evil as ridiculous as it sounds. Like they did colonize. And their history isn’t great too. Even today. Like nowadays, my girlfriend is the only white girl I’d date. And I just feel horrible about all these thoughts.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

Why can’t you direct your distain onto the “specific” people who deserve it?

Like that family you talked about and the others who share their opinion.

By that I mean take the race out of it

I live a similar situation and what I do is I never judge two people the same just because of their color. Even white folk

Because that family you heard was racist but their next door neighbors might not have been at all
Should their neighbors be randomly hated on because they share a skin tone? I don’t think so

The world is full of hate and always will be
You just need to steer clear of it and surround yourself with people who love instead

Like that white girlfriend of yours

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You should break up with her because you're always gonna resent her. If you think your future kids will be half evil racist colonizers, you won't be a good father.

I've heard the same racist things from hispanics anyway, though. You come to our countries, hate our people and culture and only care about your own, even date our women and then turn around and act like we're evil scum bags. The only difference is hating white people is socially acceptable these days. So I wouldn't get on your high horse about racism, you're clearly thinking in a cruel way about someone who trusts you and doesn't deserve that. She didn't colonize anything or be racist to anyone, you're the one being racist by lumping her in.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Fully white people with not much mixing in their blood are usually racist to some degree but will never admit to it. But you shouldn't let that hold you back in life, do what you want and if you don't trust your girl dump her and go for someone else lol.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Here comes the liberal complaining about racism again , how original

slatyb · Answer

Some white people are racist, but so is your belief that almost all are. I have lots of white friends who aren't racist -- they are nice to everyone.

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