Search Results: mess up a relationship

Were your parents supportive when you went through your first break up?

I was 17 going on 18. So I was a senior in high school. I had my first boyfriend which most of my family didn’t accept because he is latino. Some family didn’t care what race he is. I’m white. so we dated for about two...

AutisticLonelyWoman

Xper 4 Age: 23

Guy's Behavior

My guy friend seems to be slowly ghosting me?

I have a guy friend, (technically friends with benefits, but closer to best friends bc we don’t mess around often). Let’s call him Richard. Richard and I used to see each other all the time, text all day long, talk on the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I go out with a guy who has a girlfriend?

FYI, I’m 22 and have never been in a relationship or even on a date. About a month ago, I met this guy on a church trip and we exchanged numbers. After we both got back home, we texted a little and he called me a few...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think it’s messed up if I message a girl that’s into me if she wants to have sex when I just met her?

She messaged me first. And I just feel like pounding her. I don’t really want a relationship at the moment.

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m pregnant which his child but am I okay to become unreachable to him until I give birth?

I’ve been with this guy. I will put my hands up and say he probably was not ready for a family life and his plan was not to settle down anytime soon but I got pregnant and I found out at 16 weeks. I’m not inhumane and I...

xolaurenxx

Xper 6 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Can I message a women I was seeing?

I (man) 31 was seeing a women (32) and it was going really well. Until one day she told me she felt messed up and dumb. She said she wasn’t ready for a relationship. We stopped talking. Can I message her a month later to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to overcome self insecurities?

I’m gonna be honest, I won’t take words of consideration from strangers. The only opinion that matters is what I think of myself, but it feels better to talk about it. Simply saying someone is “pretty”attractive” etc....

Boomchakalaca

Xper 6 Age: 24

My boyfriend seems to be pocketing me, any advice?

I am 21 he is 20. I'm his first relationship, just for context we live seperatly with our familys. We met in Jan. 2023 and became exclusive April 10, 2023. In the first month or two of dating we had a conversation. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should be done to regain trust once it’s broken?

If someone betrayed you, or did anything to make you lose trust, what all would you do to help them get past it so you could attempt the relationship in a healthier way with hopefully no more mess ups? Or what would you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Tell me what you think?

So I like this guy.. well he’s actually my baby daddy.. we had a one night stand that resulted in our baby.. but we’ve kissed and hugged since but kinda just figuring out how to be coparents first before anything. He also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriends best friend?

So I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now, we are both so happy in the relationship and would have the usual ups and downs over little things! Over the past few months one of his friends has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex boyfriend is talking to her again. Why won't he leave her alone?

Yesterday, my ex boyfriend and i were hanging out at his house with my daughter. Everything was going good- until, he mentioned his baby's mother.🙄🤦 The woman he clearly don't do anything for while she's pregnant with...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Sometimes I wish I never met her. Do you ever feel like this?

It's just crazy how someone who used to mean the world to you can end up being the source of so much pain and regret. In the beginning of our relationship, we laughed, talked for hours, and explored new things together,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about how I went on a first date/meetup with the next guy who didn't mess me around while the first guy did mess me around me?

I went on a first date/meetup with the guy I was texting on Whatsapp and he didn't mess with me at all. We had our first date on June 8 and he texted me if he might not be able to make it due to sleep problems, but ended...

TheSimFans

Xper 5 Age: 27

Why would she do that?

Had my “final talk” with my now ex of a year. She broke up with me because we had been fighting the last couple months semi regularly and at the time I thought I understand what I was doing wrong and trying to fix it but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think it’s messed up for someone to be on dating apps less than 3 weeks after their fiancé died?

I know someone whose fiancé recently died. They were literally getting married this summer. I think they were together for 6 years, if not more. She had 2 kids with him and he also raised her daughter from a previous...

JustinTheGreat

Editor Age: 28

I know someone whose fiancé recently died. They were literally getting married this summer. I think they were together for 6 years, if not more. She had 2 kids with him and he also

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I’m having a hard time trusting my boyfriend and I keep pushing him away. Should I just allow myself to trust him completely?

Or would that be dumb? Part of me wants to let my guard down but I’m afraid to do that. He hasn’t given me any reason not to trust him. I think I’m just messed up from my last relationship.

Hello4242

Xper 5 Age: 32

My ex and I got into a physical dispute last month and he moved on quickly into a new relationship. Was this his intention to date this person?

Last month my ex and I got into a huge fight, and he physically assaulted me. This fight was our biggest fight we ever had. I ended up with bruises on my arms and legs with scratch marks on my arms and a bloody...

Anonymous

(30-35)