I was 17 going on 18. So I was a senior in high school. I had my first boyfriend which most of my family didn’t accept because he is latino. Some family didn’t care what race he is. I’m white.
so we dated for about two months and things were going great. The second month he started to get less interested and bothered by my height. We’re both 6ft. He also got annoyed when I was agreeable and a “yes” person. He stopped calling and texting me. I do text him and call though. He hasn’t answered in a week. I texted him to see if everything is okay and if he was bipolar and he texted back five hours later saying, “Who the hell told you I was bipolar? That’s a messed up thing to say. And I didn’t hear for him for the next two weeks. I texted him. I told my late dad about it and he laughed at bit and said, “It’s over between you two. The relationship is done.” I didn’t tell him about the bipolar part. I was shocked and I don’t know what to say. I said, “It can’t be over.” I told my sister and she told me, “I hate to tell you this little sis but it looks like he isn’t interested anymore if he hasn’t responded. I would just walk away and just end things.” I kept texting him another week and he looked pissed. We video chatted and I saw another girl and kissed her. He dumped me over video chat. He said he hated having a tall girlfriend and I was too agreeable and dissed him when I asked him about the bipolar part. He broke my heart. My dad told me, “Well that’s life. You will get your heart broken and you can’t expect things to last forever. I told you it was over. He was unsupportive. His girlfriend (let’s call her Tracy) called me out for asking him if he’s bipolar and I should not have asked him that. She told my dad to tell me and don’t baby me and I need to be a woman. He said she was right. I was heartbroken and neither of them supported me when I was crushed. 😢😭
My siblings and friends were supportive but didn’t agree with me the bipolar part.
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