Sometimes I wish I never met her. Do you ever feel like this?

[Anonymous]

It's just crazy how someone who used to mean the world to you can end up being the source of so much pain and regret. In the beginning of our relationship, we laughed, talked for hours, and explored new things together, you know. I was sure I had found "the one."

But as time passed, things got complicated real fast. We fought over the silliest stuff, and her temper? Oh boy, it was like a ticking time bomb. I swear, I had to walk on eggshells, afraid of setting her off. It was draining, man, mentally and emotionally. I just couldn't wrap my head around how something so amazing turned into a complete mess.

However, I still can't forget the first time I met her. Everything was just so beautiful and I wish it had stayed that way. Now I wish I never met her. Am I a bad person for feeling this way?

[lightbulb27]

Yes but that means you haven't learned your lessons and grown from it... you are still wallowing in the misery.

Been through plenty like that, there's another side to it where you go "man, I wouldn't wish that on anyone, but I'm grateful because I learned so much I couldn't have paid a university for what I learned/gained".

So get to that point and change your reality. I didn't start learning til around your age, no shame in that. Plenty of life ahead...

In the movie "the fisherman and the sea"... was the fisherman glad for that fish, or wish he'd never seen it?

[MrWolf]

There was this one person so I can relate to it. Felt the same way wish did not meet her. Was hard to move on and pretend like it never was like it was a bad dream.

With time this feeling vanished and a new came in its place because I've cherished the happy times we had with each other. Sure there was a lot of bad ones.

But sometimes it's better to forgive them and yourself and move on with life. I ain't talking about faith or something else just forgive and move on.

If it wasn't meant to be then probably it was for the best to end.

[whistlingwh0res]

It’s call the sinister. As soon as you step outside of your friends and family who cares about you things get messy. I would call it sinister zone where everyone is malignant and manipulative and just malicious just like bible warms us. It’s best to think of things and be aware of them next time. I mean it could look like something different than the people you already know in the first place. That’s all. Sinister do that

[Account]

Her temper sounds oddly similar to mine.
Leave her alone. That is who she is. It won't change.
Don't go back to her odds are she will ignore you or if you are terribly unlucky and she lets you in, you will keep repeating the cycle till both of you get sick of each other even more.

[Account]

As for you wishing you never met her, it is completely normal to happen during the first phases of the break up

[Babar82]

No man, don't feel that way. She was just too emotional and couldn't control her emotions and made it difficult for her partner to carry on. She sounds as she was a difficult person to spend your life with. No matter how it started. We always cherish how a relationship started with a gender of the opposite sex. But believe me when I say that if those cherished memories become a source of emotional pain for you. And it's not the same with her. She was not worth your life and time. She lost a good partner who cares for her and loved her. Let her move on. Her loss. If she wants to come back to you. She should do herself. Not you mourning all over her. If she doesn't then let her go. And try to forget her instead of mourning over cherished worthless memories of how your met her. That has no meaning to you anymore in your life. Maybe the realization hits hard but it could be that you will be a better person without her in your life. Just try forget her then.

[exitseven]

I can understand tis but it never happened to me. I dated somebody who was really crazy and she used to abuse me. I never regretted being with her however. It is hard to explain but I learned a lot about life and relationships.

[Anonymous]

This sounds familiar. I also felt this not too long ago and when i think back, i start to feel those emotions again, happiness, then the not so nice emotions when things went bad for whatever reason. This seems to happen with everyone (guys, girls...)

[provokeesmokee]

Bro, it's called breaking up. Calm down, it isn't a Hallmark flick.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No. I had a wonderful life, I loved and I was loved. I don’t regret it.

[Vikkrram]

You know we can only ride bicycles when both wheel works. Relationship is all like that

[Kerrytheman]

All the time! Yes i had two children with her but she ruined what i considered my perfect family.

[Fuentes]

They're in my recycle bin in my brain I can't permanently delete tho lol

[WanderingLoveWizard]

So dump her and pretend you never did (meet her)

[Anonymous]

What’s your astrology sign?

[legalboxers]

you sound like me during 2020.

[BLP11520]

Oh yeah buddy!!!

[BaoBao1]

Never