Search Results: shy about asking

Why this change in behaviour from him?

Told my shy guy friend I have feelings for him. He got nervous and said ”I dont know what to say”. Then he said Im easy to talk to and Im funny and pretty but didn't feel more than that but ”had been thinking about it”....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, was my female colleague interested in me?

I would like to start off by saying that my colleague already had a boyfriend before all of these happened and I had left the company months ago. Anyway, moving on: Whenever we have company lunches or dinners where...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How do you make friends?

This appears to be a common question amongst the socially anxious but it's valid for simply asking for advice. I've always been a shy person with excessive social anxiety.. It was hard enough trying to communicate in...

FieldOfVision

Xper 3 Age: 25

Girls, would you prefer to date a handsome introvert or a handsome extrovert?

Assume that the extrovert is this bubbly guy, who is always cracking jokes, who likes talking and socializing with pretty much everyone and is a real party animal. Someone who goes nuts on the dancefloor and has a ton of...

MarkosSPL

Xper 4 Age: 26

Assume that the extrovert is this bubbly guy, who is always cracking jokes, who likes talking and socializing with pretty much everyone and is a real party animal. Someone who goes

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Is there a chance he’s not asking me out because he’s shy?

There’s a guy who I met last semester who sparked my curiosity. We met in a smaller class and he would always make eye contact with me while talking. Sometimes it got kinda awkward. we’d even have funny discussions before...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Relationships

Does my crush like me back? Should I confess? What should I do?

Hey, so there's this girl from another university that I have a crush on. I've been good friends with her for the past year or so, and like me, she's a very shy, introverted, 'nerdy' type of girl. I have zero experience...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Playing matchmaker, should you "supervise" the couple?

So, last month I matched my half-brother (19) with a friend of mine (24) who was interested. I introduced them, schooled my brother a bit, supervised their first dates at my father's home and around town from a distance,...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Education & Career

Would it be weird to send this to my professor?

I have this young professor maybe mid 30s who’s very personable. He was a very good teacher and I took a course with him last semester that changed my life lol. It was probably the best course I’ve ever taken and I’m a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Why don't people care when I talk?

I'm a really shy person but I've been trying to talk more to people so that I can make more friends. It seems like people don't really care about me tho. I feel like they only want to talk when they need something or a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys advice please? Am I missing something?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family

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A friend (F) out of nowhere showed me a picture of a random girl and asked what I thought of her/rate her. Why did she asked me that?

In addition of the question above, she sends me random senseless messages or asks for my opinion on very important stuff, but when I check them, most are either: already deleted and says not to worry about it; gives me an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he wait for me to hold his hand and not do it himself?

Hi, recently i went to the movies with this guy I've been seeing. Our arms were touching next to each other on the same armrest and during the middle of the film i noticed a couple of times that his palm was stretched...

girly222222

Xper 2 Age: 23

Girls, How would you girls react if I were your manager at a new job?

I'm asking this because we started out a few new girls yesterday for the Logistics department and I'm in charge of that department as well. So when they first came in to the Warehouse conference room they saw me sweating...

MisterTee

Xper 6 Age: 35

Guys, am I ugly 18F?

No guy has ever approached my in my life, so I’m asking because I’m starting to wonder if they don’t approach me because I’m that ugly. I have friends who are shy and almost don’t talk, but they still have boyfriends.

Alexandra1

Xper 3 Age: 21

What does this mean me and this girl have been texting for awhile and she sent I care about you 😊 she also sends it a lot I'm just confused?

Bc she's shy and I don't feel like asking her

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Is asking for a guys number too forward and weird?

I like this guy in one of my classes and my friends and family were giving me advice. They always tell me to just show myself as approachable (it’s hard for me to just smile when I see him because I think he’ll think I’m...

Anonymous

(18-24)