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So there's been a number of times on here where a woman will say something to the effect of 'It's ok to look but NOT stare!' and then guys will come around and say 'its my RIGHT to stare so i will do as i please.'

And i roll my eyes every time. To those dudes on here we are not talking about your RIGHTS or what you legally can or can't do when a woman says this. She is talking about 'acceptable' vs 'unacceptable' behavior. and if you leer at a woman it's considered RUDE. yeah you CAN do that as in legally you have every right to do so, but it is RUDE to do so. there's a difference between something being illegal and something being rude (but legal).

For instance its also legal to openly and audibly fart around strangers, spit on the ground right in front of people, chew with your mouth open around people... and guess what? Those things if you do them you are considered a RUDE person for doing it.

Leering at a woman sexually you don't know is also rude... and also creepy too. So please Try your hardest not to be rude please.

If you're confused by the difference between glancing vs staring here you go:

Glancing

Staring

Nuff said!

Rant over

Anything you guys would like to add?

scenario one. I make one innocent joke that my girlfriend cooks like crap. I was totally joking and she said I was a jerk. I said she was lucky to be with me and she is a rude little pig. Just a joke. She then wants to break up with me. Shouldn't I want to break up with her? She took my innocent joke and made it about different things.

Scenario two. I was walking and I his older woman asked me for help. I told her she was a lazy B and to do it herself. It was totally a joke. This woman said I was ungrateful and a jerk. Ungrateful? She should be grateful to even be speaking to me. She comes from the rough part of town and I don't. I don't want to get my shoes dirty by stepping where you just stepped.

Last scenario. This kid was outside. He was probably eighteen. I came over and shoved him into the mud and got his school clothes all dirty. I wanted to say see you next fall. And get this cute girl to laugh but before I could he started fighting me. So I called his parents over and told them to deal with this kid.

My question is. Why do people treat me so rudely? I'm just joking about stuff. It's not my fault they don't have sense of humor and are sensitive. who is to blame in each scenario.

So when I got this job I was in a tough spot. I was starving needed the money my brother was drinking himself to death, and I just left an abusive relationship. My PTSD was at its worst I was just trying to survive. So I didn't talk much but there were a few women there I thought were attractive but they didn't really seem to feel the same way and I just thought well that's not why I'm here anyway. Those same women were very rude and dismissive to me personally. It's a stressful job and I didn't talk much because of my aforementioned issues, but a lot of people took my depression and quiet nature for stupidity those women especially. Lately tho like all at once one liked me and then another some girl got a write up because she started hiking up her thong and swaying her hips in front of me. I didn't make a move because she was pretty aggressive about it and she not 3 months ago would act like I was a burden to her existence. When I didn't make a move and after she got written up went back to hating me but also trying to flirt then back to hating me again. That's basically been the same pattern with a few women there I work with. And it's only like this at work outside of work people are very kind and receptive to me. Another one was a girl I really liked I thought she was the most attractive girl I've ever seen but she was also probably the rudest person to me there out of everyone. Now she's doing this same shit, keeps staring at me when we are dressing up to enter the work room keeps running directly into me when she would always make a point to be across the room from me and never looking my way. Yesterday the power went out and everyone went to the hall I was feeling kinda shitty so I found my own spot to chill out and she walked all the way from where she was standing alone and stood right next to me kept looking at me and circling me waiting for me to say something to her. Why is she now acting this this after treating me like shit for about 8 months straight.