Why are people in California literally super rude?

[Anonymous]

As a black girl I am scared for my life. So many of the cities are hostile especially cities like Cerritos, Artesia, and certain areas. Then Orange County on the other hand is whole different racist like the south type racist. Also people are super judgmental they make fun of you if you don't have a car and walk everywhere and guys are so against black girls. Everyday I hear someone from their car or outside calling me u g l y. Funny when I had my hair straight before they ignored me. Anything that's not conforming to their pure holy godly white skin is considered sin and ugly to them. It's like every other race out here hates us even our own men. Then trying to find a partner is nearly impossible. I fear I might pass away single because the guys all want a Latina baddie or some other girl. Also even at jobs managers don't care about you. They will reduce your hours to nearly 0 and do not care how many times you plead and beg on knees like a dog that you are at risk of being homeless. They don't care it's like a little sadistic pleasure boost for them. Even the chuches out here act fake. I can't express how many times I either have dealt with hypocrites or was nearly assaulted by a man in the church and everyone took his side because he was giving a lot of money. He acted like the victim but was watching me before I turned 18. Then you are expected to look like a model out here. You literally have to have fake nails, fake lashes, hair done up ALL THE TIME, 100 pounds of makeup, super tight clothes or 2 inches of clothing on, no hair on your body, thick hour glass shape body, and you have to have fair skin and people are not friendly either. I been here for 8 years and yet to find someone who wants to be friends and in the past when i made plans they would make excuses or cancel everytime. Even the guys out here act phony. They are either too macho domestic ab-ser type guys or little soft soy boy pretty mama's boy. (Forgive my grammar)

[Daniela1982]

Your mistake is not getting out of Orange County. It's worse in LA County. At least you are not in Compton. 😫

[Anonymous]

The real question is why are you lying? My wife and I have lived in CA our entire lives. All different cities. She's originally from LA area too. And is black. None of what you wrote is true. You just pushing an ideology to spread hatred? Is this victim fiction to satisfy your craving for victimization? Or is this just hyperbole and you're taking a couple incidents in five years and making a mountain out of it?

[Anonymous]

As a black guy who spent the first 24 years of my life in Garden Grove (Orange County) I have to ask you what planet you live on? Here on Earth, my experience was very different from yours.

[avery58]

It sounds weird. California stopped being cool a long time ago anyway.