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I'm not here to talk shit I'm here to inform you on the situation. Dont just reply with reactionary bullshit.

But relationships are asinine. Girls can take your stuff without even being married to you. All they have to do is live with you for long enough. They'll take your kids too, you'll pay them child support and they'll be getting fucked by other men. It's just asinine to get into a relationship.

Who even made these rules and why are they so biased? The legal system must be full of simps. But complaining about it won't inform you on what decisions you should be making going forward.

First off about the future, I dont see the situation ever recovering. I dont think MGTOW is the way forward, but a lifestyle of non commitment definitely is. And here is why.

It's the reality of our current society. All the women men really want, the young college students, aren't ready for serious relationships until they're 30-35.

But guys, why would you sacrifice your life for them? We want to have fun too, and yet most of us never get to when we're in college like chad.

So if you're one of the 80-95% of guys who works hard and starts making serious money by the time he's 30 has two options.

Option 1: date to marry the girl that's been run through at 30

Option 2: date younger girls for fun while they're in college. Instead of paying for a relationship they pay for a situationship where a young girl gives them their attention for some money.

Life works out better that way. That's just the truth of the matter. The one thing that would stop you from going this route is your ego. So many guys want to feel like girls are attracted to them for who they are.

But fortunately the red pill is killing that fantasy. Almost every highschool boy today is aware of the redpill. Because almost every highschool girl called them incels like two or three years ago. Remember when it was cool to call guys incels?

That did nothing but motivate the 80-95% of lower-tier guys to read up on the red pill.

One of the reasons men get so angry over the friendzone is not because we lost our opportunity to be more than friends. Rejection burns but that is just a fact of life for more most men. Dating is like being a door to door salesman to us. Its up to us to make it happen and if we get a no then we want to move on ASAP until we eventually hear a yes. The disinterested girl is now just a liability if we continue to waste our time and energy on her.

Anyway the real reason we get angry about the friendzone is we feel like our masculinity isn’t being respected. Respecting a man surely doesn’t mean dating him, having sex and/or getting a relationship. Its understanding his gamble he took a (likely uncomfortably) by approaching you. It’s now your turn to be forthcoming about where you stand. It need to be done sooner than later.

Confidently assuming he is going to be okay with being platonic friends when it’s plain as day he wants more is disrespectful, cowardly and selfish.

While I can understand that women are nervous that men won’t take rejection well in reality most guys can take in in stride. If they do get angry or rude than take that as confirmation you made the right choice.

No the truth is most women don’t want to lose out on the benefits of having the interested guy in their orbit (attention, favors, ego boost, someone to use against you really like, etc.). They also know that interested guy will likely do more for them vs someone who isn’t. This is especially true of if they see the guy is “nice” which women either consciously or subconsciously find feminine. Most of them have no idea how deeply insulting that attitude to vast majority of hetero men.

Anyway I haven’t been “friéndzoned” in a very long time but I’ve had women attempt that crap (including grown ass women in their 30s). The attempt itself is infuriating tbh (a woman past 30 should know better. I feel there should come a point in a woman’s life where she should understand male psychology better.

I can see the uses of social media but the need for attention is getting ridiculous. I read an article from a neurosurgeon that this is just like cocaine. Too much of demanding “likes” will increase your need for dopamine or serotonin.

Fellas, for those of us with common sense, we already know how things like this end, but there's always blue-pilled men who or either not that intelligent or they haven't caught their significant other yet. One way to avoid it in general is to pay attention to the friends before getting into a relationship. No disrespect ladies, but I'll simply ignore your votes if you try the poll. I already know your bias. Anyways, what say you?