Search Results: how can you tell if a guy is just shy

Was he hitting on me?

I recently went to a work colleagues wedding and I happened to bump into a old work friend who'd left to pursue his photography career. We used to be really close friends. We both bounded over having a lot in common....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why can love have such a profound effect?

I knew this guy… he really had no ambition, he didn’t take good care of himself he was good looking when he fixed himself up, he was awkward, he was shy, he was rejected in some humiliating ways when he approached girls....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you like blind dates or when someone you know just randomly sets you up with someone they know?

So I just experienced my first, I honestly didn't like it because 1, I'm still getting over a relationship and 2 I'm extremely shy. I honestly felt sorry for the guy because I barley talked to him and he was really trying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird that I have a crush on a stranger from a photo?

This is so dumb but there's an alternative (?) club that I go to every weekend and I was looking at concert photos from the last month and I saw this guy there on a picture and I have such a crush now. He's also older...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he shy or not interested?

This guy I like I think he likes me back but I mostly only catch him looking at me when I’m not looking like one time I was in an aisle walking around on the phone I could tell he kept glancing I turn around he’s just...

Victoria7869

Xper 4 Age: 26

How can you tell if a guy is just shy?

I mean, this one was married for 4 years and with her for 10, he had gfs in uni but he's been single for ages. It seemed like he used to be really confident but he's a different person now. He doesn't comment on girls...

Monalisa77

Xper 6 Age: 38

Girls, would you get frustrated about some guy not greeting you back?

There's this girl at my workplace who I hadn't seen often in 2 years, and when I did, I barely recognized her because of covid forcing us all to wear face masks. I met her the first time during covid and thus never really...

scoogy

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do some girls assume that I got a crush on them when I never even spoke to them?

1st. a girl (Keyra) friends would come to me and tell me that i like her when i never knew she existed. Now 11th grade i see her again, she is apparently friends with this other girl (i’ll call her Cana) who also acted...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean if your guy friend wants to put his finger in your mouth?

so we were texting and i told him i was sleepy but couldn’t sleep and then he sent me a picture of a guy putting his thumb on a girl’s mouth and said he’ll do that to me so that i could sleep. i got shy and said no cause...

lupitaeslinda

Xper 1 Age: 22

Is He Having Crush On Me?

Heyy I’m asking here because I’m tired of making my own assumptions 🥹 I’m a girl , having this huge crush over a guy I know since November , we only know each other names eventhough we never officially introduced to each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why would a guy do this over the phone?

So me and this guy have been talking since February. He definitely struck me as a shy type who was a bit awkward/oblivious around girls. He wanted my number, so I gave it to him. We've talked mostly every day since then....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shy Girls, How to subtly tell a shy girl I like her?

Long story short, this girl I know, but don’t talk to much was acting strange around me a month ago when we saw each other in person at a public event. She kept taking glances and would look away when I caught her. She...

Unknownsh3

Xper 2 Age: 28

Entertainment & Arts

How can I attract metal/rock guys?

I only listen to rock and heavy metal, black metal etc. basically it's just that no one can ever tell. Recently I was on a small black metal concert (70 people maybe) and a girl literally told me "you're so pretty what...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he a big red flag or should I continue seeing him?

I met a guy on Tinder. We were chatting for 9 days. I was interested. But there was also somethings I didn’t know if were normal while we were chatting; - He talked about a wedding he is going to next month and he said if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do all my boy friends want me?

i have never been in relationship but i’ve had a few boy friends. I am very open and i always joke around, i’m also an empath and i read people pretty quick so i tend to always get close and understand everyone. All my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Do I have a chance at getting him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How should I go about this with my past love and my current love?

I have a boyfriend. We've been together for 5 months now and I like him very much. Before him i had a long time romantic interest woth someone from my school. I had liked this other guy for about 2 years, but didn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it bad when girls in relationships go out clubbing? Should I be concerned for their boyfriends? Or is this normal, acceptable, modern behavior?

So here’s the thing. I’m out gambling with a friend, I plop down at a machine, and the two girls next to us INSTANTLY initiate a conversation. It’s going pretty well. The vibe is there, I have no issue talking to them,...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 26