Is it weird that I have a crush on a stranger from a photo?

[Anonymous]

This is so dumb but there's an alternative (?) club that I go to every weekend and I was looking at concert photos from the last month and I saw this guy there on a picture and I have such a crush now. He's also older than me, probably 15 years but to me that doesn't matter. He's also talking to some woman in the pictures so maybe that's even his girlfriend or something. I know I don't know his personality and all but don't tell me you never saw a stranger walking past you in the street or whatever who you couldn't forget?

Is it still weird though? Everytime I go there I try to look around and see if he's there now but I know I can't do anything anyway because I'm too shy. I'll probably just sit around and pray he'll come up to me.

Is this weird? /: And if it isn't do you have advice

[MarkHrdman]

Say hi to him. The conversation leads from there. Be a good listener. Maybe suck his dick. See if that helps. Just keep at it. If you fail with your encounter there is always plenty of fish in the sea.
Plenty of occasions I've had glances from woman. Having to keep tabs on everyone to try to run into the same person for multiple woman can be impossible, especially with expecting an encounter with 1 of 5. Youve only got 1 person to pursue and failing because of a principle you dont know which is that someone could be at the same place at any given day for half an hour and leave. At least with a venue youd think that someone would stick around but it might be months at least before someone returns.
Trust me when I say this, after $8k of going out every weekend, there are other people. If you miss an opportunity with someone who is there now who you could be interested in, the problem is you being hung up on someone who probably isn't into you, who you want to pursue because of your insecurities for being affixiated with. Now im not saying he won't take you home and fuck you. What I am saying is youve never had an encounter in person, so until that time, if you shut yourself off from other people who you do have an encounter with for some brief interaction as much as a glance within 30 seconds of several hours of the day or night then you fucked yourself

https://youtu.be/VrDfSZ_6f4U

[ohsheeT]

Some times strangers are the best to meet at least for me but single strangers. Not married. Or taken

I guess if you see him every week just sit down next to him. Have eye contact and start chatting that way you can find out all about him..

But I should tell you if you want him because of his looks. Remember that not who he is. The real him is on the in side find out who that is because that the real him.
The out side is just an extra bonus
Both men and women pick there parter the same way and it ends up in break up

We all like beautiful people. . But for me beauty comes from the inside and the out side is just an extra bonus

[MarkHrdman]

First of all thats a ridiculous opening.
2ndly your following statement shows you didn't bother to read all of what she wrote because she has never even meet him, let alone meet him every week to get to know him which goes to show you dont know the first thing about pursuing someone to engage with them initially which is further imbelished by you meeting strangers.
3rdly you dont understand the laws of attraction. She doesn't have to sit down to get to know him to have an understanding of who he is to be attracted to the person he is on the inside
4thly men and woman are different so it is not the same for both. Not everyone is the same. There is a complexity of structure to partnering with catarogies of varies types but 1 example is of a woman who doesn't give a $#!+ about what someone looks like because she is only interested in him for his money or the size of his cock.
However men are stimulated by visual appeal.
Woman can be affixiated by someone because of words.
Can you see the difference? Because you sure as f*ck have no clue about this.

Beauty doesn't come from the inside. Beauty comes from genetics, applying physically and being sexually charged.
The inside is what ugly people say to feel good about themselves!

How the f*ck did this even get selected as most helpful?

[ohsheeT]

Thank you for your wisdom

[Cynicaldreamer]

I wouldn't call it weird, it's exactly what you said it is: a crush. Nothing wrong with liking a guy that's attractive :)

With that being said, and not to be cynical, if he's that much older than you, I wouldn't get -too- attracted to him, as he probably is seeing someone, or might not want to date someone that's much younger than he is. Plus, as you said, you don't know anything about him so he could be a creep or weirdo... looks aren't everything.

The only way to find out is to try to find out more about him. Next time you go to that club, ask around and see if anyone knows him, or at least his name so you can look him up on social media (if he has any). Or you might get lucky and he might reappear at said club and you can chat with him yourself. Just remember- don't stress out over it, and don't obsess over a guy you don't know anything about!

[mackenzieeeee]

Yes. Or even just go up and say hi. Maybe thats all you need out of it

[MarkHrdman]

I like your detective skills. you're a people person, I see

[mackenzieeeee]

Lol yea

[Onashir]

Before web guys j off to pics of woman mostly

[Babygirl_S]

I also have a crush on a stranger from his photos. I don't know what he was like in 2009(my favourite photos!). I can find very few videos from that year.

I have watched him sexualise himself in TV shows, interviews etc. I needed to hear his manly, deep voice and posh British accent (I think it's a masculine accent). Photos help me imagine a perfect lover with ease. I'd be lying if I said I don't look at his pictures frequently when I'm sad or scared. I can't explain why. He embodies my Prince Charming. Unfortunately, fairies don't exist and I don't have glass slippers 🥺

What's better than a British gentleman in suit?

I would worship him like a god if he were mine. I wish he were a regular guy whom I could easily meet. I wish I were his blondie!!

[Summeroflove]

Nahhh. You just found him attractive

[dophix]

Yes, I saw his picture from my virtual friend. I told my friend that his colleague is cute and my crush. My friend introduced me to join their video call. We didn't turn on our cams. That was our first conversation after 1 year of waiting to hear his voice. Lol! Then he made an effort to chat with me. I treasure my moments with him even though our conversation is short.

I'm looking forward to see him someday. He said he will hangout with us (with my virtual friend) if I visit their city.

We became friends even though we are not that close. Goddammit! He is freaking cute 😆

[CB-Raido-Time]

You described me nearly my entire life. Yes I have fell in love with others that I never met in my life and yes I have had kept their photos or their videos I do it to this day because I know that is or will be all I will ever get to have is their photo. Going by your age you probably never heard of it until now, there is a song by one of the beatles always a favorite of mine since day one hearing it for this exact reason.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IhDKHo2wapM

[TheThingALing]

Had a girl experience same thing a out 10 years ago. She had seen me at a club one weekend, came across my Facebook randomly, added me, and I checked her profile out and added her back. We ended up seeing each other the next weekend at same club. We hadn't messaged each other but when we saw each other, we both remembered. Ended up dating her a good while.

So, hey, maybe works out similarly for you

[Peter_Penetrator]

Ever hear the phrase, “Never meet your heroes” or in your case an idol.


You can crush on a persona, but once you meet them, they can be very inconsiderate or even down right assholes; shattering your expectations.


But yes, it is very easy to fall in love with a stranger that is possibly displaying a facade.

[Finchie40]

No , you just find him attractive, but the chances of you running into him , might be a slim chance , but if you do run into him , don’t be shy , take your window of opportunity and go for it lol

[Asker]

It's a small club and there's a lot of people who come there regularly including me recently. So far I haven't seen him though /:

[Finchie40]

Well if he does show up it might be his lucky day lol

[Asker]

Yeah to be able to actually do something I'll just have to take three shots of vodka extra then I guess

[Finchie40]

LOL the booze booster , it does work 😋

[lightbulb27]

not weird, human. attraction is sub conscious connection. He in some way relates back to your childhood emotional experiences. What those are, makes the difference whether it's good or not.
you are now in the "find mate reproduce phase of life". That phase lasts 20 some years.

just because you are attracted doesn't mean it is good or right. but it means something to explore.

[PaulPanda8]

Maybe. But that's just physical attraction. If you're wanting to fuck him, it's probably lust you're feeling. I want to fuck some facebook friends but I know that it'll never be. Is it wrong? No. Just human nature. Wanting someone is good. Just don't show up to their house. Lol.

[Tiptoetamm]

No not weird hun. The first yoy thing you notice in someone is how they look and how they act and you observing to see what he's about. Talk to him make a move you'd be surprised I bet

[Lliam]

It's perfectly normal. It's like the way adolescents crush on teen heartthrobs and have their posters in their rooms. Both guys and girls do it. And it's not only teens who have such crushes. People can have crushes on movie stars or celebrities, for example. It's not love, just adoration and fantasy.

It's about their looks and personas, but it has nothing to do with what they are like in real life.

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

Man i wish someone would admire me like that?
Maybe she is out there but I haven’t run into her or rather her run into me.


Plot twist.


I am club guy 15 years your senior
Come get it

[MementoMori777]

I guess a crush is a crush, if you fall in love with him from just a picture, that's weird

[Asker]

I'm not in love I just think he's rlly hot

[MementoMori777]

Then that's normal

[Poliker]

No, that's fine. I would say you greatly like his appearance, but for a real crush, I think they have to be someone you can see in real life at least once a week.

[ThelmaRae]

Nahhhhh. I like guys I see online sometimes too. Shit it’s embarrassing but I used to like Mario…

[Justaguyagain]

I don't think is weird, but i don't have any advice either, i don't think there is something you can do here

[trick1492]

You can have a crush on anyone at anytime. They come and go.

[stoicity]

It reminds you of an idea of being loved by the figure we often fantasie about. In my experience, i was in the same spot and it feels surreal.

[Kabluie]

Yep, there is always features people have that may set off an attractiveness alert better. Some people that just really turn it to 11 for me, and it does make me want to get to know them. It's awesome feeling when they are in your life.

[bowenw]

You are hot weird. Try to get up the nerve to say hi to him.

[Sour-rose]

No? Your brain will do the oddest things for no reason, such as finding someone on tv cute. Happens all da time, it's all good