Is it weird that I have a crush on a stranger from a photo?

Question

This is so dumb but there's an alternative (?) club that I go to every weekend and I was looking at concert photos from the last month and I saw this guy there on a picture and I have such a crush now. He's also older than me, probably 15 years but to me that doesn't matter. He's also talking to some woman in the pictures so maybe that's even his girlfriend or something. I know I don't know his personality and all but don't tell me you never saw a stranger walking past you in the street or whatever who you couldn't forget?

Is it still weird though? Everytime I go there I try to look around and see if he's there now but I know I can't do anything anyway because I'm too shy. I'll probably just sit around and pray he'll come up to me.

Is this weird? /: And if it isn't do you have advice

MarkHrdman · Accepted Answer

Say hi to him. The conversation leads from there. Be a good listener. Maybe suck his dick. See if that helps. Just keep at it. If you fail with your encounter there is always plenty of fish in the sea.
Plenty of occasions I've had glances from woman. Having to keep tabs on everyone to try to run into the same person for multiple woman can be impossible, especially with expecting an encounter with 1 of 5. Youve only got 1 person to pursue and failing because of a principle you dont know which is that someone could be at the same place at any given day for half an hour and leave. At least with a venue youd think that someone would stick around but it might be months at least before someone returns.
Trust me when I say this, after $8k of going out every weekend, there are other people. If you miss an opportunity with someone who is there now who you could be interested in, the problem is you being hung up on someone who probably isn't into you, who you want to pursue because of your insecurities for being affixiated with. Now im not saying he won't take you home and fuck you. What I am saying is youve never had an encounter in person, so until that time, if you shut yourself off from other people who you do have an encounter with for some brief interaction as much as a glance within 30 seconds of several hours of the day or night then you fucked yourself

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Some times strangers are the best to meet at least for me but single strangers. Not married. Or taken

I guess if you see him every week just sit down next to him. Have eye contact and start chatting that way you can find out all about him..

But I should tell you if you want him because of his looks. Remember that not who he is. The real him is on the in side find out who that is because that the real him.
The out side is just an extra bonus
Both men and women pick there parter the same way and it ends up in break up

We all like beautiful people. . But for me beauty comes from the inside and the out side is just an extra bonus

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't call it weird, it's exactly what you said it is: a crush. Nothing wrong with liking a guy that's attractive :)

With that being said, and not to be cynical, if he's that much older than you, I wouldn't get -too- attracted to him, as he probably is seeing someone, or might not want to date someone that's much younger than he is. Plus, as you said, you don't know anything about him so he could be a creep or weirdo... looks aren't everything.

The only way to find out is to try to find out more about him. Next time you go to that club, ask around and see if anyone knows him, or at least his name so you can look him up on social media (if he has any). Or you might get lucky and he might reappear at said club and you can chat with him yourself. Just remember- don't stress out over it, and don't obsess over a guy you don't know anything about!

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I also have a crush on a stranger from his photos. I don't know what he was like in 2009(my favourite photos!). I can find very few videos from that year.

I have watched him sexualise himself in TV shows, interviews etc. I needed to hear his manly, deep voice and posh British accent (I think it's a masculine accent). Photos help me imagine a perfect lover with ease. I'd be lying if I said I don't look at his pictures frequently when I'm sad or scared. I can't explain why. He embodies my Prince Charming. Unfortunately, fairies don't exist and I don't have glass slippers 🥺

What's better than a British gentleman in suit?

I would worship him like a god if he were mine. I wish he were a regular guy whom I could easily meet. I wish I were his blondie!!

Summeroflove · Answer

Nahhh. You just found him attractive

dophix · Answer

Yes, I saw his picture from my virtual friend. I told my friend that his colleague is cute and my crush. My friend introduced me to join their video call. We didn't turn on our cams. That was our first conversation after 1 year of waiting to hear his voice. Lol! Then he made an effort to chat with me. I treasure my moments with him even though our conversation is short.

I'm looking forward to see him someday. He said he will hangout with us (with my virtual friend) if I visit their city.

We became friends even though we are not that close. Goddammit! He is freaking cute 😆

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

You described me nearly my entire life. Yes I have fell in love with others that I never met in my life and yes I have had kept their photos or their videos I do it to this day because I know that is or will be all I will ever get to have is their photo. Going by your age you probably never heard of it until now, there is a song by one of the beatles always a favorite of mine since day one hearing it for this exact reason.

TheThingALing · Answer

Had a girl experience same thing a out 10 years ago. She had seen me at a club one weekend, came across my Facebook randomly, added me, and I checked her profile out and added her back. We ended up seeing each other the next weekend at same club. We hadn't messaged each other but when we saw each other, we both remembered. Ended up dating her a good while.

So, hey, maybe works out similarly for you

Finchie40 · Answer

No , you just find him attractive, but the chances of you running into him , might be a slim chance , but if you do run into him , don’t be shy , take your window of opportunity and go for it lol

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Ever hear the phrase, “Never meet your heroes” or in your case an idol.

You can crush on a persona, but once you meet them, they can be very inconsiderate or even down right assholes; shattering your expectations.

But yes, it is very easy to fall in love with a stranger that is possibly displaying a facade.

lightbulb27 · Answer

not weird, human. attraction is sub conscious connection. He in some way relates back to your childhood emotional experiences. What those are, makes the difference whether it's good or not.
you are now in the "find mate reproduce phase of life". That phase lasts 20 some years.

just because you are attracted doesn't mean it is good or right. but it means something to explore.

PaulPanda8 · Answer

Maybe. But that's just physical attraction. If you're wanting to fuck him, it's probably lust you're feeling. I want to fuck some facebook friends but I know that it'll never be. Is it wrong? No. Just human nature. Wanting someone is good. Just don't show up to their house. Lol.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

No not weird hun. The first yoy thing you notice in someone is how they look and how they act and you observing to see what he's about. Talk to him make a move you'd be surprised I bet

Lliam · Answer

It's perfectly normal. It's like the way adolescents crush on teen heartthrobs and have their posters in their rooms. Both guys and girls do it. And it's not only teens who have such crushes. People can have crushes on movie stars or celebrities, for example. It's not love, just adoration and fantasy.

It's about their looks and personas, but it has nothing to do with what they are like in real life.

Wisdom-Strength-Love · Answer

Man i wish someone would admire me like that? Maybe she is out there but I haven’t run into her or rather her run into me.  Plot twist. I am club guy 15 years your senior Come get it

MementoMori777 · Answer

I guess a crush is a crush, if you fall in love with him from just a picture, that's weird

Poliker · Answer

No, that's fine. I would say you greatly like his appearance, but for a real crush, I think they have to be someone you can see in real life at least once a week.

ThelmaRae · Answer

Nahhhhh. I like guys I see online sometimes too. Shit it’s embarrassing but I used to like Mario…

Justaguyagain · Answer

I don't think is weird, but i don't have any advice either, i don't think there is something you can do here

trick1492 · Answer

You can have a crush on anyone at anytime. They come and go.

stoicity · Answer

It reminds you of an idea of being loved by the figure we often fantasie about. In my experience, i was in the same spot and it feels surreal.

Kabluie · Answer

Yep, there is always features people have that may set off an attractiveness alert better. Some people that just really turn it to 11 for me, and it does make me want to get to know them. It's awesome feeling when they are in your life.

bowenw · Answer

You are hot weird. Try to get up the nerve to say hi to him.

Sour-rose · Answer

No? Your brain will do the oddest things for no reason, such as finding someone on tv cute. Happens all da time, it's all good

BryanMoore · Answer

not weird to feel this, I think we are all drawn at some point to people we don't really know. It can be a nice fantasy sometimes! i've had this a few times with celebrities or even like friends of friends!

jshm2 · Answer

It's hardly weird you find attractive someone in a photo - it's one of the reason for photos.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Probably a little. But I'm not judging you. I can understand how that might happen!

IknowthatIdontKnow09 · Answer

I think is possible but mine was from musical videos even i call her: The more beautiful woman in the whole world

RingOfFire · Answer

My advice is to enjoy the fantasy while you can as the likelihood is that the reality would bite you the instant you met him.

kevypatyy7 · Answer

Ohhh if he is cute and has perfectly beautiful ocean eyes then I would definitely crush

linka_pat307 · Answer

We also have crushes on celebrities that we don't meet soo

UnknownSwede · Answer

It's a crush. That's not the same as love, but just something that piqued your interest and that could be their words, acts or looks.

Jltakk · Answer

Its possible. I don't remember ever having one like that but I've seen it from others

Manuel2 · Answer

Does the photo help your sex life? As women are usually taught that mental porn is as bad as photo porn. You see this pwrson to help you masterbate or improve boring sex life.

Christoff92 · Answer

No. Many girls have deep crushes on James Bond, Harry Potter, Aquaman, etc. Can have crushes on strangers in pictures as much as you want 😊

Anthony20108 · Answer

Probably not, it’s infatuation based upon solely their looks, you won’t know you like them until you meet them in person, if that is even possible.

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

Yes, you can find someone attractive and maybe even feel some chemistry just from the way they present themselves.  But beyond that, no.

noohair · Answer

Maybe it is a social media thing. When I was young, we lived our lives in private and did not broadcast every thing we did.

Anonymous · Answer

it is a little odd. it seems like you have too much time on your hands lol jk

Twalli · Answer

I've masturbated to memories of girls I have seen without knowing anything more about them.

BrookeS · Answer

Its not weird to fall for the idea of someone

Peachbae · Answer

I have experienced it a couple of times. I guess there’s really no formula to these things.

Paul09 · Answer

A little weird to me. Because it isn't just about looks.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Its very weird but very common amongst women to have a crush on stranger from a photo

msc545 · Answer

He may look like someone from your past that you don't recall completely.

krin_m · Answer

Not weird as long as you are cautious if you want to connect with him.

marchmunch · Answer

Not weird! It's easy to be captivated by someone you don't know.

Jamesgoldrich · Answer

Not weird at all. There are a few people i have a crush on. I think it’s normal.

SolSolBunBun · Answer

Yes It Has Happened To Me Many Times.

wannabecuck-2 · Answer

Yep. Lust at first sight is real.

Walt832 · Answer

Ha! the stranger is you for being strange 😆.

Mimi_758 · Answer

No I dont think that is weird at all

Chris2254 · Answer

Nah, it's not weird at all.

Wise4myage · Answer

Nah, Its all good.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

No. Many crushes come from looks.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

What you're experiencing is pretty common.

shades777 · Answer

Isn't that exactly what dating apps are?

Anonymous · Answer

That is very strange.

Thot_Stomper · Answer

Yeah but he wasn’t a stranger long haha

TheAfrikan · Answer

That is a crush nothing more.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes that's definitely possible

Onashir · Answer

If u live in country like Saudi Arabia

Actor3 · Answer

No. That is why pork works.

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm I'd say no it's not weird

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