Long story short, this girl I know, but don’t talk to much was acting strange around me a month ago when we saw each other in person at a public event. She kept taking glances and would look away when I caught her. She would linger around me but wouldn’t start a conversation, I didn’t take any of this to mean anything till I was walking past her when we were alone by the entrance and she wouldn’t make eye contact. She kept looking down and when I said something funny she laughed but still wouldn’t look at me, instead she turned her face downward and giggled and responded with like 2 words as if she didn’t know how to respond. I took it as this girl doesn’t want to talk so I left and didn’t realize she may have a crush till I got home and reflected on why she was acting strange. I do have her on Snapchat, we don’t talk on it but she always looks at my stories and never misses them. So a few weeks after that event I found the courage to say hi on snap and asked her how she was doing, which she looked at in 5 min but left me on read and never responded. I ended up backing off thinking she isn’t interested maybe and I misread, or that she’s shy to respond. She still continues to never miss a story of mine. Now I’m thinking if she is even aware if I like her back or not. I think I insinuated that me reaching out to her that one time was enough for her to know I like her back, do you guys think a shy girl would take that as a hint or was what I said not a hint enough? We both come from strict cultural backgrounds so i thinks it’s hard for her to accept her feelings maybe, and I don’t have experience either. Should I send subtle hints that I’m interested? What kind of subtle clues can I give?
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Your descriptive sounds more like the one of a 15-16 year old than of a 25 year old adult. I have a hard time believing that an adult would ask this kind of question.
Now, if you are interested in this girl, the best way is simply to ask her. All you risk is to be rejected but that is part of the game. Also, what are your intentions with that girl?
She may have a crush on you because the way she behaves is, again, more likely the behavior of a teenager rather the one of an adult.
If you don't make your move, someone else that is less shy will and then you will miss your chance. To me, it sounds as if you are also shy and not only her...
To be fair, I did say I wasn’t that experienced with this stuff. We come from strict cultures and yes I am shy myself. Being shy doesn’t reduce me to a teenager as you were so nice to mention
Just come out and say it. It is not difficult.
Just approach us when its just us