How can I attract metal/rock guys?

[Anonymous]

I only listen to rock and heavy metal, black metal etc. basically it's just that no one can ever tell. Recently I was on a small black metal concert (70 people maybe) and a girl literally told me "you're so pretty what are you doing in a place like this" That hit me hard ngl. Like people probably think I'm a poser or something. My style is different everyday but people would probably always describe it as girly. I wear a lot of dresses, fur coats and I like pin up/vintage clothes and I'm blonde, no tattoos or piercings and I'm shy

I'm only interested in the guys with the long hair and who look like they'd want nothing to do with me though. I get hit on a lot and stared at, on that concert I got some comments and all but the guys who actually come up and want something from me are only ever the creeps or the type that I'm not interested in.

What can I do?

[MementoMori777]

Keep looking, sometimes opposites attract, I'm sure you'll get someone you seek for, even with your fur coats or whatnot

[MysticDevice]

The reverse question is: how do I attract ladies like you.

[PointTaken]

I'm just curious, what kind of metal do you listen to? What bands mostly?

[megabamse]

Just ask one out

[Asker]

I'm way too shy to do that I could never handle being rejected I think like what would I even say

[megabamse]

Let's walk through it. "Hi i dig your leather jacket with the band stuff on, been to any great gigs lately? I would love to go for a coffee and chat about music" and if they say no then so what? It's not like they will go "no thanks" and then burn down your house and climb a street lamp and scream "look at the loser lady" the only way you will EVER get over glue shyness is to actually do the things that makes you shy. It's called exposure therapy and it's proven to work.

[megabamse]

*your (not glue)