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For context, we met up for first time from app yesterday & had two calls earlier this week. I was questioning if he was interested to begin with bc with the calls earlier this week, he’s the one that ended them in less than 30 min. And yesterday, he ended the dinner too because he “knew I had somewhere to go & didn’t want to hold me back” (told him I had to go out of town with family & would need to leave in the night). I haven’t heard from him since, he drove 45 min to meet me at a local restaurant, paid for the bill, walked me to my car & hugged me twice (in my opinion all common courtesy). He asked most of the questions, by now I’m just used to the guy reaching out maybe an hr after meeting up telling me they want to see me again or at least wanting to make sure I got home safely. I deleted the app yesterday but still have him on discord, he shared his # when we spoke on the phone earlier this week but I hid mine for safety reasons. Honestly I’m not interested in seeing him again, I just hate rejection. Also when we were msging earlier on, we didn’t talk consistently throughout the day like I’m used to with other people I’d speak with before. I’ve become lower effort in that sense bc I’m not as invested but if a guy is interested he’d pursue. Last thing I’ll add is he asked me maybe 2-3x if I had new years plans & kept telling him not sure yet/might do something with family. I can’t anymore 🙄. I’m giving it a week & if I don’t hear back from him, I’m deleting him from discord.

I was on a Christian dating app, and I found a guy who lived close to me to hang out with in person. We both desire to be married. During the 1st date, we talked about our pasts, like dating/sexual history, family life, and the basics. We briefly talked about our faiths and encounters/revelations, but we didn't dive into that. He doesn't text super often when we are not together, so I started conversations a couple of times to get to know him more during our time apart. He wanted to see me 3 days ago, so we met and had a great time. I still don't fully understand some awkward moments, like him not feeling comfortable picking up a phone call from someone I didn't know while I was with him. I told him I can give him privacy, and he insisted it was okay, but his mood had changed drastically. Besides that, we spent 5 hours together and bonded a lot more, even though we didn't mention our faith at all during that time.

I told him I liked him while we were hanging out, and he said he liked me too. I asked if he wanted to go ahead and start a relationship with me since it was fair to consider how much we were attracted to each other during that time. He said he wanted to go on more dates before we reached that point, which I am fine with. He told me after the date that he had lots of fun, but the following day, I felt we weren't discussing the important things that should've been covered on the 1st date, like faith. I sent him a message asking him to pray about getting God's perspective about us before continuing to ensure that we are compatible. He left me on read, and I had to send a clarifying message the next day letting him know that I didn't mean harm with that last message and apologized for coming off strong. He said it was alright, he understood, but he had never heard someone praying for that. I thanked him and told him I had heard people receiving that information from God before, but I realized that people's experiences can differ. He left me on read again.

For context, we met up for first time from app yesterday & had two calls earlier this week. I was questioning if he was interested to begin with bc with the calls earlier this week, he’s the one that ended them in less than 30 min. And yesterday, he ended the dinner too because he “knew I had somewhere to go & didn’t want to hold me back” (told him I had to go out of town with family & would need to leave in the night). I haven’t heard from him since, he drove 45 min to meet me at a local restaurant, paid for the bill, walked me to my car & hugged me twice (in my opinion all common courtesy). He asked most of the questions, by now I’m just used to the guy reaching out maybe an hr after meeting up telling me they want to see me again or at least wanting to make sure I got home safely. I deleted the app yesterday but still have him on discord, he shared his # when we spoke on the phone earlier this week but I hid mine for safety reasons. Honestly I’m not interested in seeing him again, I just hate rejection. Also when we were msging earlier on, we didn’t talk consistently throughout the day like I’m used to with other people I’d speak with in the past. I’ve become lower effort in that sense bc I’m not as invested but if a guy is interested he’d pursue. Last thing I’ll add is he asked me maybe 2-3x if I had new years plans & kept telling him not sure yet/might do something with family. I can’t anymore 🙄. I’m giving it a week & if I don’t hear back from him, I’m deleting him from discord.

So we scheduled a call today for 1 PM, before the call he said he needed to confirm if he’d be available at that time & he did. I thought we were going to do it through the app but he instead msged his # this morning. So when it was time to call, I tried through the app first & it didn’t work, that’s when I called his # & hid my number. He asked if we could video call, I tried again on the app & it didn’t work that’s when we just continued the call through the phone with my # hidden. After a little less than 30 min, he said he had to go build his bed (just moved) & I had to go too so I didn’t fuss. Before ending call, he scheduled dinner later this week & last message I got from him was about 10 min after our call, when he asked if I had discord. I replied back around 6 pm & haven’t heard back from him, did something go down or is everything ok atm & I’m overworrying? We usually message a few times a day except this past Sun & now today

I'm asking anonymously because I don't want him or others on FB to find my question here. He only spoke to me once way back in 2009 or 2010 and requested me on FB. Then by 2018 or 2019, as a way to get over him (he was married at the time; now it seems they've gotten separated or divorced), I unfriended him. I felt bad though but did it. This is the same guy I've admired since 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. He must now be like 38 years old and is a doctor. Nope, I never got over him after all these years.

Then recently just last Friday, I reconnected with him. This time I reached out to him and he's back on my FB list. This is how the brief conversation went:

Me: Hi

Him: Hi!! How are you!!

Me: Good here. I accidentally took you off the list so I sent you a request. Nice picture.

Him: It's ok You in Florida or Peru?

Me: Lima, Peru

Him: Great to hear from you I want to go!! I almost went last year. I love Peruvian food.

Me: Great. Just let me know in advance if you come. It's great hearing from you too. Well heading back to work. Can you add me.

Him: Just did. Take care!

Guys what would you think if you were him? Did I make it obvious? Would you've noticed it?