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There was this young woman waiting for a bus in the cold and I looked at her she was shivering and I smiled and she smiled back. The thing is like I’ve noticed if some guy I knew who is balding and a bit overweight did the same thing the woman would give him a look of say eww and look away. Both of these guys dress in clothing that’s say mainly from Kmart
i dress in brand name clothing a lot except if I’m having a lazy day kind of thing lol
Another guy I know who’s short and very skinny gets the same treatment. Why is this so? I have been told by many women that I am a 7 out of 10 so does that really make a difference? I’ve been told also by a woman I know that the overweight guy looks twice his age and looks disgusting but why is this so? Warm regards to all

I’m a good person, I have a good body - train, I’m clever and doing a masters, I look good, i’m tall and I’m a confident guy and people like being around me

Yet I get 0 matches on tinder. Every girl only goes for the extremely attractive men it’s bullshit.
Women suck.

It’s all about being the most physically attractive man physically and being white. It’s actually quite offensive. Like I take offence. Even really overweight women don’t swipe me 😂

I don’t deserve this. I’m looking at myself and I have my shit together

Hello I'm 20 years old and in college majoring in electoral engineering. I have a friend in college who is 23 years old and he's a veteran from the air Force. He recently told me that me and my girlfriend are not going to last and we're going to break up eventually. My friend told me that when he was younger, he was made fun of by girls back in school (including high school for being overweight). before and during the military, he tried to get with women, but he got rejected a lot by women. He's now fit and now he's trying to take advantage over it. He said that he's trying to hookup with most girls as possible. He only goes for girls who looks for relationships to use them and to make the girl feel bad once he's done with him (because the girl was looking for a relationship; not a hookup). He said it's not fair how back then when he was younger everyone else was getting in relationships while he was single and kept getting rejected. I keep telling him what he is doing is wrong, but he won't listen to me.

Hello I'm 20 years old and in college majoring in business administration. I have a friend in college who is 23 years old and he's a veteran from the air Force. He recently told me that me and my girlfriend are not going to last and we're going to break up eventually. My friend told me that when he was younger, he was made fun of by girls back in school (including high school for being overweight). before the military, he tried to get with women, but he got rejected a lot by women. He's now fit and now he's trying to take advantage over it. He said that he's trying to hookup with most girls as possible. He only goes for girls who looks for relationships to use them and to make the girl feel bad once he's done with him (because the girl was looking for a relationship; not a hookup). He said it's not fair how back then when he was younger everyone else was getting in relationships while he was single. I keep telling him what he is doing is wrong, but he won't listen to me.

In modeling there are plus sized models and women always tell other overweight women that they are beautiful etc.

I think that's evil for a few reasons. First of all the health of the woman will keep getting worse and it will shorten her lifespan and give her health issues as well as possible low self esteem, physical pain, and it will be harder to find intimacy etc. And believing something false can cause more mental damage long term which can lead to more suffering.

I will use myself as an example. I used to be very overweight in my teenage years. Then I suffered from finding a woman to date or be intimate with. After several years I realized 99% of women don't find fat men attractive (even fat women don't want fat men). That's just reality. I'm not saying that's my fault and neither is it the fault of those women obviously. But because of the false expectations of "fat acceptance" I thought being fat is ok.

After a couple of years of gym and caloric restrictions etc. I was treated like a completely different person. I was respected and admired and both men and women would be friendly and accepting. I later got with a girl that I found attractive without putting almost any effort. Sadly around that time I started losing most of my hair and now I'm invisible to women again. (brutal I Know).

Anyway I think we shouldn't make people feel bad about themselves but I also don't think we should lie to people and make them delusional. We should admit that there is a problem somewhere and encourage people to be healthy and live a better life rather than "empower" them to ruin their lives and future opportunities.