Is it fair to dislike women for my lack of dating success?

[Anonymous]

I’m a good person, I have a good body - train, I’m clever and doing a masters, I look good, i’m tall and I’m a confident guy and people like being around me

Yet I get 0 matches on tinder. Every girl only goes for the extremely attractive men it’s bullshit.
Women suck.

It’s all about being the most physically attractive man physically and being white. It’s actually quite offensive. Like I take offence. Even really overweight women don’t swipe me 😂

I don’t deserve this. I’m looking at myself and I have my shit together

Yes it’s fair to dislike women because of this

No it’s not

[TonyV]

Do you swipe on the overweight girls?

Sounds like you are projecting, doing exactly what you don't like, only trying to get the super attractive women.
Dude I got matches, cause I swiped right on everyone, if you have , zero then it's cause you aren't giving the 4s,5s and 6s a chance, your only shooting for the 8s and up, so this is partly your fault.

Also, tinder is garbage. Look up "the better bachelor " on youtube, he's got a video breaking down the statistics of just how few women are even actually looking on there.

Let's be honest, your average at best, women don't want average even if they are or are below average themselves, that's why best case 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of men, so right off the bat you've got a 8 in 10 chance of being completely ignored, then there are married women on there just bored passing time who don't intend to date, and a lot young dumb entitled girls who just want validation and aren't going to date or sleep with anyone, they just wanted their ego stroked.

Dislike them if you want but it won't get you anywhere, if you want different result you have to change your approach, instead of sexy and petite with big boobs and a bubble but, give an average, chubby or maybe even a cute fat chick a chance. If you want a real relationship stop prioritizing looks, if your just trying to fuck a sexy girl you might just have to find a hoe who's willing to pay to play.

Sorry girls don't line up to throw their wet panties at you, live sucks, whatever, either hit the gym and improve yourself till some do, or lower your standards the lower girls that would love to have you.
Or just keep throwing a tantrum of "why won't they fuck me!!!" It won't work but you do you

[goaded]

Did it ever occur to you that they don't go for you because you're attactive, and don't want the competition, or think they'd be treated badly?

How do you know "Every girl only goes for the extremely attractive men"? Is that information the app gives you, or just your assumption?

[FictionalCharacter]

I thought you have a group of women friends. I mean aren’t you in college or something?

[Anonymous]

How can you blame someone when it is probably your fault?

[Asker]

It’s not though. There’s nothing wrong me. I’ve done some self evaluation.

[NoUsernameSelected]

It's not.
Not because women on dating girls are angels. Faaaar from it. You need to accept that most women are fine going for the top 10% of guys and deluding themselves that they aren't part of one or two guys' soft harem - some are even admitting that it's better to be on call of a hot guy than having an average guy for herself. That is not because they are evil, like men are not evil because they would fuck everything mildly appealing to pass their seed. It's how it came to be. There is no morality in that behavior, it's not good or evil, it just is.
That's what you have to accept.

What makes you angry that you hear, especially a lot of women, that say personality matters, they don't care about race and so on. When their actions are quite the opposite of what they say. Personality doesn't matter and they are fine with racists as long as they look good. Women present themselves as not caring about this because they want to feel good about themselves amongst other women. Like men lie amongst other men when it comes to how much they earn or how much sex they had.

Once you have accepted the reality and that there is no power to change it, you will find to lose your hatred. This is good, it is unhealthy to hate women. What you need is to treat yourself the best you can and stop thinking sex is something that you constantly need to achieve, in fact that should be right at the bottom of everything. Do what you like and if the need arises, rub one out.

Find something you like to do and commit yourself to it. You will find suddenly women will want to enter that moving train. But don't ever forget, they are the passenger. If they aren't happy with the destination, they have to get off because your destination to where you like to go is what made you attractive in the first place. Changing that on the demand of a woman will make you unattractive to her and you will lose her sooner or later anyway.

If you don't have that - you are a guy. You have all the time in the world. You will find something.

TLDR: Don't hate women. It's not your nor their fault.

[exitseven]

'what good does disliking women going to do./? Like everything else in life dating is hard. Relying on social media to find you a date is just being lazy. Get out and meet people in real life.

[jshm2]

You're an incel, in other words.

You are not worth breeding with for women, and are too superficial and shallow to hide your red flags.

[Iron_Man]

No it’s not but I understand you and you probably don’t like the idea they go for Rich guys

[NathanDavis]

it is stupid... that's what it is

[CompletelyHetero]

a lot of woman say men are disgusting and perveted pieces of shxt.. so why would it be wrong to hate them? It's only fair we hate them back

[Shamalien]

Yeah online dating is fucked. Unfortunately that’s kind of the de facto way these days

[LazerBean]

That sounds stupid.

[Asker]

I know the truth is stupid

[Anonymous]

Women openly hate men for far less