First of all, I'd just like to clarify: You said "it's like they don't want to love me", but then you talk about a specific guy. Is it one guy? Or is it most guys? Because that makes a big difference. If it's one guy, just let him go. It's kind of an indicator that he isn't interested if he doesn't want to sleep with you (an exception would be if his hesitation is related to more conservative values).
If it's a pattern, it may be that you are too clingy or suffocating in a relationship. Which that particular guy translates to "crazy".
I noticed you said, "It's like they don't want to love me, or I'm not good enough". That makes me inclined to think that you are feeling insecure about yourself as a person. You may be unintentionally projecting those insecurities onto him (or whoever you are dating) whenever he doesn't affirm that you are good enough. Let me ask you this: What evidence do you have that you are not good enough to be loved?
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He’s making excuses because he’s not interested and he’s too spineless to be direct. Sounds like a toxic arsehole. I’m sorry he hurt you. You’re better off without him. Red Flag City.
slash his tires then call his boss and say you saw him with his wife lmao (jk). Feel it out, maybe he's teasing you. Or, he is distancing himself hoping you dont show up at his window in the middle of the night
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Find a guy who doesn’t think that would be my advice
If guys are calling you crazy -- like lots of different guys -- then there's something to it and you have to self-examine to see what you're doing that leads to that unappealing title. Are you too restrictive or jealous or needy? Does your personality fluctuate from positive to negative so it seems irrational to them? Then you're "being crazy" in their eyes.
Like sometimes he could be right may be you’re crazy some people really are crazy let’s be honest but on the flip side he could be projecting may be he’s the crazy one orrr may be he’s joking or using that word as a synonym for eccentric it all depends on the context 🤷♀️
Don’t know. Not w out some real information. A lot of people say oh well just leave him he doesn’t deserve you or he’s just making excuses. But your question says “they,” so that implies more than just a single man. As much as people don’t like to look at theirselves, that’s what you need to do. Do these men have legitimate reasons to think that? If you stepped outside of yourself, really looked at yourself from an outside perspective would you say you have real issues?
You've gotta start by taking a step back to look at what you're doing objectively. Because that's how he's seeing your behavior. Guys call girls crazy when they're acting really inconsistent and forceful.
Ask yourself why they think you are and likely realize because you are acting unbecoming of a woman and then change your attitude. Or get mad and whine about men this and men that and then change your attitude.
How is it hurtful to be called crazy? There's no context behind the word crazy it could mean both a good thing and a bag thing it could even be neutral.
Well are you crazy? Can you give some examples of what you did or said that made him say that?
Self assessment of your behaviors is probably a good start.
If you think you've behaved well then asses him after that.
Don't be rash/emotional, be analytical (I know it's easier said than done)
Then show him crazy! Handcuff him while doing a naked lap dance. 🥳
If you like him, prove him wrong!
If you dislike him, prove him right!
Do nothing. Let him be. You don't need to stay in touch with someone who thinks you're crazy.
I'm have a massive crush on somebody who most people would think we are both "crazy" if we got together.
You probably failed to communicate something clearly.
I don't know how to answer this question without more facts. Let's start with this... WHY does he think you're crazy?
I don't think you're crazy, you're a female, so obviously your batshit crazy.
Then you move on very simple if you don't then you might be crazy
Accept that he thinks you’re crazy and move on.
He is a whore and he thinks he think straight as a whore
Maybe you're crazy, most women are crazy nowadays and men don't wanna deal with that nonsense.
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