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So he and I have worked very closely for the last 2 years. We have deep conversations almost daily.
Three months ago I let him know I was attracted to him and he said he was attracted to me. We ended up having a few sleepovers and hanging out.
I’m almost 13 years older than him and have almost grown children, and one who is over 18. I physically cannot have more children. He wants children. But he has a diagnosed mental disorder. I let him know I would like to casually see him at this time and if someone that wants to marry and have children comes along then that’s ok.
Everything was going great until I started to like him too much. He started to reduce text and I said something bc I’m blunt. I asked him to be honest. He text back that he felt there were too many expectations.
I asked to spend time with him 3 weekend in a row and he was too busy mowing his yard and going to lunch with a man. So I went out on a date. Come to find out he ran and slept with an old girlfriend. He told me after the fact bc he thought he had contracted an sti. He blamed me saying the doctor said it was unlikely he caught it from the girl over the previous weekend bc symptoms wouldn’t show that fast. I had been with my previous boyfriend for 4 years and had been abstinent for almost a year after…. We both went for treatment. I got tested as well. Two weeks later all the results are in and I let him know I’m clean. No apology.
In the meantime, he decides he is going on vaca for 3 weeks. He leaves and I’m upset bc this is a guy I talk deeply for hours every day!!! He’s in another country. Where I don’t know bc he didn’t share. I feel he’s with another woman! He’s still texting me every two days or so. But he is very vague and leaving out the I in his sentences. I’m not an idiot I know he’s not alone.
I’m about to just stop all contact but I really connect with him on a deep level. He is the first guy in a very long time that is worth having a discussion with. Should I walk away?
Three months ago I let him know I was attracted to him and he said he was attracted to me. We ended up having a few sleepovers and hanging out.
I’m almost 13 years older than him and have almost grown children, and one who is over 18. I physically cannot have more children. He wants children. But he has a diagnosed mental disorder. I let him know I would like to casually see him at this time and if someone that wants to marry and have children comes along then that’s ok.
Everything was going great until I started to like him too much. He started to reduce text and I said something bc I’m blunt. I asked him to be honest. He text back that he felt there were too many expectations.
I asked to spend time with him 3 weekend in a row and he was too busy mowing his yard and going to lunch with a man. So I went out on a date. Come to find out he ran and slept with an old girlfriend. He told me after the fact bc he thought he had contracted an sti. He blamed me saying the doctor said it was unlikely he caught it from the girl over the previous weekend bc symptoms wouldn’t show that fast. I had been with my previous boyfriend for 4 years and had been abstinent for almost a year after…. We both went for treatment. I got tested as well. Two weeks later all the results are in and I let him know I’m clean. No apology.
In the meantime, he decides he is going on vaca for 3 weeks. He leaves and I’m upset bc this is a guy I talk deeply for hours every day!!! He’s in another country. Where I don’t know bc he didn’t share. I feel he’s with another woman! He’s still texting me every two days or so. But he is very vague and leaving out the I in his sentences. I’m not an idiot I know he’s not alone.
I’m about to just stop all contact but I really connect with him on a deep level. He is the first guy in a very long time that is worth having a discussion with. Should I walk away?
