He is a coworker of mine.
We talk for hours on the phone, he hugged and kissed me... a lot. Then played hot and cold, joked about me and my feelings and repeated it all over.
I got defensive when he told me that we are in a open relationship. I started yelling and trying to get clarification about our relationship.
Then he withdrawed a bit, but still continued calling me and talking to me and even we had a hour and a half phone call just yesterday.
There is another thing - I'm very stressed at work and I get angry very easily, cannot cope with people joking with me anymore.
Yesterday a customer, which is a friend of mine and admires him too, visited him. I wasn't at work...
My coworker told that person that "she is good at heart but crazy"... about me.
And that made me really sad. I don't know why he would say something like that about me to someone he barely knows. I don't know how to behave. I'm sad and angry.