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Hi all, I love my girlfriend so much, she’s the sweetest person ever. I’m 26 and she's 27. We are together 1 year but I have to admit I really miss the game, I just want to have freedom and casual sex around the world for a year then I feel fully ready for commitment 100%. I had few casual encounters before and I miss it since I got into relationship too soon, I’m just worried I won’t ever have this experience again to hookup since I’m getting older, so want to get out of my system. I’m scared I might regret for rest of my life because she’s treat me so well and respects me or maybe I won’t regret it. I’ll admit I’m not as attracted to my girlfriend compared to my previous hookups, I’m not sure it’s maybe because it’s new encounters?

What do you think? Breakup or hang in there?

Just FYI you should never unconditionally love and respect someone who is a legitimate abuser and/or cheater. Nor should you unconditionally love someone who has no respect for you.

I say “legitimate” abuser because some people have made broadened out what is and what isn’t abuse. One example would be Jonah Hill’s ex girlfriend her so called “emotional” abuse allegations over Jonah’s texts. That wasn’t “abuse”. It just wasn’t what she wanted hear. All she had to do was say “well that isn’t going to work for me” and walked away. She wasn’t a victim or a slave.

But anyway most people should know what is and isn’t legitimate abuse. But do women expect more out of men then vice versa out when it comes to this?

For example women seem to demand more respect from men when a man breaks up. But when a woman breaks up with a man he’s usually expendable so anything goes on how she treats him during the process regardless if he did or did nothing wrong. Respect is optional.

Same goes when a polite man approaches her and she’s not interested. Society tells her it’s okay to be rude. But men don’t get that leeway when the roles are reversed.