So basically there is a guy that likes me, he hasn’t said it specifically but it’s so obvious, like the way he tries to talk to me and liking my posts all the time and be the quickest to like them. It’s weird because i noticed he started doing this a few weeks after he broke up with his girlfriend and that was the same time I started talking to him- as friends because he was in my society and sports club and wanted to get to know more people as I’m only first year at my uni. The thing is I don’t like him, and I made it clear through my stories that I dont want to date right now as I’m doing a heavy course- Pharmacy, and I don’t want to get too distracted. I thought he would get the hint and stop liking me but nope, he continues even more. I am uncomfortable, because I don’t like him but he is still trying. Im new to this whole romance thing so maybe that’s why im scared but I don’t like the feeling at all. I understand it is hard to stop liking someone but I made it clear that im not interested in him. I unhid him from my stories, and restricted him so he doesn’t know I read his messages. I want to remove him from my account but I don’t want to face awkwardness. My friends advised me to remove him if he’s making me uncomfortable and stuff but I’m not 100% sure because even though I want to so badly, what wrong has he done for me to remove him? Please help I don’t know what to do.
Should I remove him?
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You 'made it clear through your stories' that you didn't want a boyfriend? That's ridiculous. What is it aside from looking at you, trying to talk to you, and liking your stories?
It’s the fact that I don’t like him the same way. He knows that I don’t want to date anyone but yet he still doesn’t try to move on. I understand it is hard but if he’s still trying to make moves on me when I said I am not interested in him or dating, I find it uncomfortable. I want him to stop looking at my profile, because it will make him stalk me and like me even more ( i am assuming) and just the thought that he can still see my photos is just I don't know I don’t like it. But as you said as well he hasn’t done anything harmful, just the fact it is making me uncomfortable. I have had similar experiences like this before but only the guys move on after I say I am not interested or I don’t want to date right now :)
Okay, so you have actually told him in person that you aren't interested?
Next time he talks to you, and starts hitting on you, or being weird. Tell him straight up, he's wasting his time chasing you. If you want to be nice about it. If this guy is really making you uncomfortable, removing him might be the best solution. Yes it might hurt his feelings but it really gets the point across. Besides, you don't want a "friend" that just always has feelings for you, and acts like that.
Thank you for your comment. I will look take on your advice. I will see how far he takes it and if it “crosses the line” for me, or he just doesn’t get the fact that I don’t like him, then removing him is the last resort. Thank you stranger :)