Should I delete him?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend online, we talked in stuff etc so I don't know how to call this type of relationships, i am a person that easily get attached esp when someone treats me kindly:( i felt attached to him i always check my phone to see if he texts me, its been like 3 months we text everyday, we talked about everything and he has helped me when i was lonely and had family problems but i always wanted to he platonic with him cause i knew sexual talk ruin friendships, he always tell me that he has a soft spot for me and our bond is strong, but lately i felt like he lost interest, he goes online for hours and reply so late when i ask him he says that he doesn't lose interest and when something is upsetting me i should tell him, i told him many many times that slow replies make me lose interest in talking and make me sad. The day after yesterday, we were texting i replied to his text , an hour or two hours passed and he didn't reply so i deleted my texts i think he saw them he was online and switching on apps, so he didn't text again since that (we talk on discord fir reference). He used to text everyy single morning and when i font text back he double text me and ask if im okay, this time he didn't.

Gladly am not attached to him as i was but i still kinda think about it:(

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think you should weigh up your options.

On the one hand, you could as you suggest cut him out of your life entirely, or keep things as they are and learn to not get so stressed out merely because he doesn't contact you as much.
The thing is, it sounds like you'll miss him a LOT, even though not as much as before.

[Asker]

I can't handle seeing him in my messages again im so done he hurt me so much but i can't let go easily

[TommyMountainFigure]

Hmmmm. What about calling and talking on the phone? Sometimes it can be easier to speak to someone once a day than wait hours for a text that may or may not come?

[TommyMountainFigure]

^^^ I wasn't ignoring the fact that he hurt you and you cannot bear to see messages from him.. It was just a different approach that may be easier to handle.. Just an option.. perhaps?

[DishLady]

Along the lines of what @spartan55 is saying... while you can start something off with the whole apps chase, really you do need to transition to more. What you have going isn't any actual sort of relationship at the moment. There's "easily attached" and then just plain gullible...

As for the friendship component, I have a lot of guy friends. We don't engage in "sexy" talk, though we do discuss general sexuality questions because there are so many out there that it's a hot topic among friends.

As for your prissy nagging of the guy... stop. No guy wants to be nagged into contacting a girl. Either he wants to do it or he doesn't. It's not about you and you sound really high-and-mighty telling him that you're losing interest, blah blah blah. It's very manipulative. Maybe... just maybe... Mr. Text has a life of his own and is busy till later in the day. And maybe HE has lost interest in being nagged and manipulated. Hmm.

[DreamLife7]

It's not like he would care or notice because he doesn't like you and ignores you.

[spartan55]

Wow, another text relationship up in flames. You young people will never learn. by the way, no guy wants to be your friend.

[Asker]

What u mean?

[spartan55]

You can't form, build, maintain, or whatever, ANY sort of relationship by texting/messaging. It's not possible.

[avery58]

I think you should

[Anonymous]

No...