Should my boyfriend delete his ex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend still likes the pictures of the girl he was sleeping with before he got with me. I had a terrible divorce and it makes me feel insecure, which I know is more my problem than his. But when I told him how I felt, he said that it doesn’t mean anything and he would delete her. He never did and I’m reluctant to bring it up again because I don’t want him to think I’m being controlling. I’m usually never jealous. Should I ask him to delete or stop liking pictures, or just leave it alone?

[Finchie40]

No the fact that he didn’t delete his ex is a huge red flag , you have every right to feel the way you are feeling because it is disrespectful period , We as people can not prioritize someone if they don’t prioritize us , the fact that he is holding on to his ex his a sign that he truly doesn’t value you and likes the convenience of you , so no you aren’t being insecure you are being respectful , by keeping fire away from your relationship , The probables with most relationships that people don’t grasp is for a relationship and love to grow you both have to remove selfishness for each other , If you can’t remove selfishness for your partner they won’t be able to remove it for you , When a partner says you are being insecure or jealous that is a red flag that they are the ones that are up to no good , because it’s not jealousy or insecurities it comes down to respect for the relationship, without respect you can’t respect them , so the fact that he didn’t delete his ex is a huge red flag that he is selfish and only cares about himself. So put your foot down to him , if he doesn’t delete her then end it with him or you will be just wasting your time with someone that truly doesn’t value you

[aaron210419]

If he hasn't deleted her it could be because he still thinks he has a chance with her. I can't think of any reason why he wouldn't understand the reason you're asking him to delete her. I don't mean to sound negative but it's not a good sign when you've already asked him and he said he'd do it. Imagine it were the other way around, do you see him getting upset if you were the one giving attention to your ex?

[Guy13]

If he’s your boyfriend why does he need to be connected the last woman he before you showed up 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Mangospacho]

He does sound like he’s hanging on to her. I, personally, don’t understand why someone would spend any time at all being interested in an ex’s posts.

[Jamie05rhs]

How long have you been dating him? If it hasn't been that long, then I wouldn't expect him to have to do that. But if your relationship is getting serious, then yeah; he should delete the photos.

[MementoMori777]

I don't see the point of doing so if he has a girlfriend

[Kinkyhubby]

If he want to get serious with, he should. How long have you been dating? I know personally i don't follow my exgf or my 1st wife.

[Anonymous]

Yes, he probably should.

[In_Trance]

Yeah