My girlfriend went out to a cottage for her mothers birthday. She sent me 3 texts in 3 days? but she sent mutliple snaps (im blocked) im mad?

[gamblevii]

The way I view it. If you have time to take out your phone and wanna share somethign with everyone on your snap. You could ssend somethign to your boyfriend. But she didn't. I would. Its a simple thing. I care and love my girlfriend and think of her all the time.

I feel neglected because Its something simple that I would do while away. I see my other friends gfs call them before they go to bed. I don't get shit. I'm not sure if this is a big deal or if im just overreacting,. If you were in the same situation would you message your partner more? should i feel under appreciated and break up?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I dont know. I barely message either so it wouldn't be a big deal to me.

The fact you are blocked on her snap already shows there is already a red flag about one of your behaviors.

[gamblevii]

My behaviours? well yeah. I was a little paranoid.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Enough to block you? Either she really had something to hide or you were more than a little paranoid.

Either way it sounds like there is problems with communicating between you two and I dont just mean her texting you goodnight. She obviously doesn't see things the way you do and maybe she's annoyed by it.

[RavVid]

I think you are justified to be annoyed. One girlfriend expected me to make contact if I was away but wouldn't if she was away.

Basically it is all about her. You will probably see other selfish behavior. You will get tired of it.

[Iron_Man]

Why would she block you? You guys work it out

[gamblevii]

because i was a little neurotic about her snap score

[Iron_Man]

Work it out with her

[gamblevii]

The issue is when she was away she would send snap stories but not bother to text me. I got 2 texts in 2 days.

And we fought before. Even one of them I said I dont like fighting. She responded

"i dont like fighting with you either" like some lame ass respone.

I dunno if I wanna work it out with someone who doesn't care enough to message their partner when they are away. It takes a few seconds to send a text message even to just say goodnight.

IF thats not normal thing for couples?

[Iron_Man]

But you have to try to fix the problem change it around

[Anonymous]

if you're blocked on her snapchat, then why are you even in a relationship?

if these are things you want in a relationship, find someone else. she doesn't show love that way, it's not wrong, it's just how she is as a person.

[Anonymous]

So your dumb and she has like 3 others if your blocked on her snap.

Girls do this a lot we have 3 boy friends for different attention. Why would she spend time with you when she is enjoying her poetic boyfriend texting her at a cabin.

Yawn 🥱 soon this will be a break up.

[WhitneySnow]

The fact that your girlfriend blocks you on Snap is a huge red flag

[KrakenAttackin]

She's not your girlfriend, you are just the side dude.

[KrakenAttackin]

Also, I. doubt she is at "her mothers cottage".