He didn't ask me again?

[Anonymous]

He told me he wanted to spend 1 week at a cottage on our 1st date. Said 3 times. I finally said OK and asked him where it is. He said the cottage is owned by his friend in a town 200 miles away and is currently empty.

However, the next date, when I asked him what his plans were, he said he's been invited by his friends to go out for hiking and he will spend the rest of the holidays with his best friend and his best friends girlfriend.

He was also incredibly agitated and impatient with me and ghosted me after this date

Why do this?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he felt like you didn’t want to go, if I’m reading correctly he asked you three times before you agreed? In my experience I’d rather go somewhere with friends that are excited to go than with someone that I had to convince to go.

[Asker]

Yes but he wasn't saying we should go. It was our 1st date and he kept saying I want a break, ok so about the break.
I didn't know him prior to this date so wasn't sure

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay. Then I’m not sure what his deal is. If you’re not comfortable with him then I’d stay away.

[Asker]

He was getting upset that I wasn't touching him

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like a red flag to me. Seems he isn’t respectful of your boundaries.

[Asker]

He wanted to kiss on 1st date and I didn't but I hugged him and texted him quickly saying I loved seeing him and want to see him again. He tried to make me jealous by pointing towards a girl whose back and ass was on display and he also Saud he's going to go to his female friends house and sleep on her couch but she has a boyfriend on our 1st date

[Opinion Owner]

He sounds like a douche

[Asker]

But why do you think he was doing all this? He got jealous when be saw me walking with a guy and wouldn't talk to me on his own until I stood there and he finally broke the ice

[Anonymous]

The first date at the cottage right... you gave ALL of yourself to him already...

[Asker]

No it was at a Cafe but he asked for it

[spartan55]

Because you didn't put out.

[Wise4myage]

I say forget that clown altogether.

[Asker]

But why did he do this?

[Wise4myage]

I really don't know.

[Asker]

You aren't wise4yourage then

[Anonymous]

He just get bored from you.