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The Nathan: 6'1 190lbs. He is a hot guy with tattoos on his forearms. This guy works in sales for a music company. He has had a lot of casual sex in the past but wants to settle down with a good girl now. He could be described as a "bad boy" but is exciting and you never know what adventure he might take you on. He owns a motorcycle and loves going out drinking with the boys. He wants to do a bit more traveling before chilling out and getting married.

The Jimmy: 6'0 250 lbs. A big guy. He works in business and plays golf in his free time. He earns a very good living and can give you and your family a good life. He will take you to a comedy club, the aquarium, and introduce you to fun facts you didn't know. He is known for having anger issues and has verbally abused a few of his exes in the past, but it is something he wants to change about himself. He is a hardcore republican and owns a few guns.

The Brandon: 5'9 210 lbs. He is a bit short, but heavy, built like a brick wall, but kind of soft on the outside. This guy has kind of a dynamic personality. he's not a very social guy but at the same time he's the guy that everyone likes. He is the laid back type who cracks jokes and cares about the feelings of others. He works in construction, and often appears "rugged" with his work boots and dirty jeans, and a plaid shirt; however, he has very youthful face and certain "young" features that add a certain vulernerabilty to him. He is a virgin, and has only had one girlfriend his whole life. He has a history of depression, and often has a tendency to procrastinate. But feels that his struggles and insecurities has made him a more empathetic person. He enjoys cooking and building his own furniture. He enjoys the simple things in life and wouldn't hesitate to watch a rom com or read a book on the couch with you.

I've been very passive most of my life, often keeping my differing opinion to myself when in a group setting such as in a classroom, but if someone asked me directly, I'd have little hesitation stating my differing opinion.

For instance, back in high school, a girl was complaining about getting a detention for using her phone during class earlier in the day. I didn't say anything but when she said my name, looked at me and said "right"? As if to ask me to vouch for her seeing as how I was there as well, but to her surprise, I said "well, you've been using your phone in class for quite some time and she's told you multiple times to stop but you continued, so yeah you got a detention for it".

This angered her as expected and seemed to shock her as she's a big figure in the "popular crowd" and likely was used to people affirming her but I threw a curveball she didn't expect.

Over the years, I've become more passive aggressive and about a year ago when a slight change to my medication for anger management, depression and ADHD, I've now become more assertive than passive. I take absolutely no issue inserting my opinion into a discussion when it's contrary to the popular one. Even when there's a good chance someone may get offended by what I say.

While I also take no issue in acknowledging the limitations I have in regards to topics I know little about, like cars and such, in those cases, I make my unfamiliarity clear and delegate to those who are familiar. I also tend to probe others opinions when stated in a general manner, wanting to know what led them to their conclusion.

I'd call this a positive development for me and my girlfriend of 2 years seems to like this development as well. I wouldn't consider myself confident nor self loathing, just realistic and abel to acknowledge that there's nothing special about me.

I am curious how others view this though, do you find it attractive if someone is outspoken and isn't afraid to offend others?