My ex wants me back?

Question

So I've been with my ex girlfriend for two years…we used to be in love but we also used to fight and argue a lot…whenever we fought she used to get upset and try to break up with me over silly things, and she wouldn't answer my calls for days but I knew she loved me and she just had anger issues that's why I never gave up on her at first…but in recent months I got mentally tired from all that arguing and fighting so when she left me this time, I just accepted it and moved on…3 months later, she sent me some texts saying that she misses me a lot and that's she's so in love with me and can't imagine her life without me despite everything that happened, she also told me that she expected me to call her like I've always done whenever we had a fight…So I explained to her that I've had enough of all that arguing and fighting and decided to accept that it just wasn't meant to be…So we just broke up and initially she accepted it, but after few days she called me and wanted us back together no matter what, and without me her mental health is in ruins…I believed her because I know her very well and she's telling the truth…Now, the problem during those 3 months I've met someone else and things are going very well between us, I still love my ex but it's too late and we can't get back to each other now. When I told her that, she got devastated and didn't take it well and she's really doing bad health-wise because of her blood pressure and anger issues, she also blamed me for everything and said that she would never forgive me…Somehow, I feel so bad for her and guilty at the same time and I don't know what to do, so what am I supposed to do? Is it my really my fault?

Texaskid1 · Accepted Answer

No it is not your fault.

This women has anger issues and these type of women will raise your blood pressure and cause more stress then they are worth. You said you guys argued a lot and she has anger issues. The best thing you did was walk away from that women. Also , if things are going well with the new girl why would you ruin it just to go back with some crazy ex who is going to give a heart attack. Your ex is trying to manipulate you into going back to her after three months. She needs a therapist not a boyfriend.

Walk away from your ex and stick with the new girl.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Good luck with that…

likelyOK · Accepted Answer

It’s times this woman get some serious therapy you deserve to be happy, if this was happening to a woman with a man I’d say the same. You are not responsible for her mental health