My ex wants me back after breaking up with me?

[Anonymous]

My ex once a time told me that he was changed and wanted to break up with me then blocked me everywhere without caring about how much I cried and how I will get over it. Then after 4 months we contacted again and I agreed to stay as friends but he thought he had a chance again. So now when he learned that I have a new relationship he said that it hurts him and he loves me. He said "he will cheat on you he will get you pregnant and will leave you, young boys are like that" and then I answered "now you care about me?" And we stopped talking. What do you guys think about his behaviour?

[_Maya_]

I think he is an ex and should stay that way. He is an ex for a reason right? Why do you think anything is going to change with him. People rarely change and when they do it is temporary. People can't help who they are or how they behave. They would have to consciously tell themselves "don't do it" all the time to change their behaviors. It isn't possible. We are all who we are for better or worse and there are things we can't change. This is why people break up and move on. You find out you aren't a good fit and move onto the next person. That's what you should be doing now. What makes you think that the previous failed attempt at a relationship is going to result in anything else this time? I know that's what you are contemplating or you wouldn't have asked this.

[OneViewpoint]

I think he's a self centered immature asshole and you're better off with him in the rear view mirror. Let him figure out life by fucking himself over constantly. You don't need to participate in his education process any more than you already have. Block this idiot and move on down the road of life. You're young, go meet some more people. Gain some perspective. Make the right life decisions for yourself.

[Cristi019]

What goes around comes around. He made you suffer, now it's his turn. From what I've read, he's too full of himself. How can he know your future with that guy?

[Asker]

Exactly... he made me suffer now it's his turn, I don't even feel sad because did he feel sad for me? No

[Cristi019]

Exactly.

[ravagesavage]

Have nothing to do with him. Just move on as you did and keep your search going. Same problems and same cycles will come back if you take the bait.

[ravagesavage]

Honestly, I can't stand people like that. You find someone and they worm their way back trying to fuck what's going on for you.

[Asker]

Exactly I even never missed him

[Asker]

Yeah he is such a toxic a**hole

[ravagesavage]

I'm glad you're not like most who would entertain it. Keep that energy

[Asker]

Because only me and god remembers and saw how much I cried when he was sleeping comfortably at night the day he blocked me everywhere and when my mental health got ruined

[ravagesavage]

It might've got ruined for a bit, but I'm sure it strengthen you mentally. Keep being strong, unlike most people who would've cracked and still moping.

[Asker]

I don't even know what I saw in him. He is such a stupid guy

[Abbycado]

Move on. He’s an ex for a reason.

[itsannalee]

Move on