Hi everyone,
my boyfriend is at work today, I am home, I decided to do his laundry with mine to be sweet and was also planning on cooking him a nice dinner. We recently moved into our apartment, and I noticed it has some pet hair even though there is a brand new carpet there are little pieces of what looks like cat hair here and there and I am allergic, not severely and in the past have complained when we stayed at his brothers cus I was super reactive to their cat and it was hard to breathe/sleep. We had been wondering how our clothes and things had pet hair on them as we don't have one in the apartment, so today I noticed the communal laundry machines had pet hair stuck in them, and I let him know on the phone cus he also genuinely seemed curious of the source when we spoke about it last. I told him I think there is pet hair in the washing machines, and he immediately blew up on me and yelled "I'm sorry, this place is so terrible, we'll move back to socal as soon as we can" he said this with anger and sarcasm in his tone, I left behind socal to move north w him even though my mom is 70+ years old, has heart issues, my family is there, so I would have much rather stayed there, I was already doing nursing school there and now have to transfer after the summer, all because he wanted to move here even tho his family is hours away from us, simply because when he got thrown out of the military he thought he would easily score a job w his dad's company and it did not pan out as there were no spots and I think this was selfish of him. I told him the way he was scolding me was childish and not okay, and also mentioned something rude he said yesterday. He then started going on and said "I was so ready to have a good day with you and you just ruined it, I'm going to ignore you the rest of the day and play video games all night now" and then abruptly hung up/slammed his phone without saying I love you. Um, what the fuck is his issue? should he be dumped?
my boyfriend is at work today, I am home, I decided to do his laundry with mine to be sweet and was also planning on cooking him a nice dinner. We recently moved into our apartment, and I noticed it has some pet hair even though there is a brand new carpet there are little pieces of what looks like cat hair here and there and I am allergic, not severely and in the past have complained when we stayed at his brothers cus I was super reactive to their cat and it was hard to breathe/sleep. We had been wondering how our clothes and things had pet hair on them as we don't have one in the apartment, so today I noticed the communal laundry machines had pet hair stuck in them, and I let him know on the phone cus he also genuinely seemed curious of the source when we spoke about it last. I told him I think there is pet hair in the washing machines, and he immediately blew up on me and yelled "I'm sorry, this place is so terrible, we'll move back to socal as soon as we can" he said this with anger and sarcasm in his tone, I left behind socal to move north w him even though my mom is 70+ years old, has heart issues, my family is there, so I would have much rather stayed there, I was already doing nursing school there and now have to transfer after the summer, all because he wanted to move here even tho his family is hours away from us, simply because when he got thrown out of the military he thought he would easily score a job w his dad's company and it did not pan out as there were no spots and I think this was selfish of him. I told him the way he was scolding me was childish and not okay, and also mentioned something rude he said yesterday. He then started going on and said "I was so ready to have a good day with you and you just ruined it, I'm going to ignore you the rest of the day and play video games all night now" and then abruptly hung up/slammed his phone without saying I love you. Um, what the fuck is his issue? should he be dumped?
