Why does my boyfriend sometimes speak to me in a bad tone?

[Anonymous]

[BlueScorpio]

Is he in bad mood? Sometimes it can just be how a person sounds, but they aren't trying to be mean. Some people have a harsh tone or voice. Unless you notices his attitude has been getting grouchy lately, it might be nothing to worry about. Best thing to do is just ask him, he probably doesn't notice it.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Does he ever state frustrations with you possible being argumentative, debating everything he says, applying your personal experiences as way to negate what ve says, etc

I think those would be the most common reasons why a guy will all of a sudden. Get a louder, more serious, sometimes condescending tone

[Summeroflove]

Because he’s mad? Don’t know any other context

[jennifer_bloom]

Some people forget their kindness when they are angry and see only their rage. If they do not react to your reminders, it might be time to distance from them.

[Bethany22]

Because men have been more socialized to think that speaking in an angry tone is acceptable. You're not expected to change your ways unless he explicitly tells you what he needs from you

[Noahzaid]

I also think that it depends If the guy as been around a lot of women or not.
I didn’t socialize around women much and it took time for me to realize that women need a smoother type of communication.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then you don't know how much a man gets demonized for speaking with such tones. That's even a reason when men tend to be more quiet than women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If you mean consistently is because you let him get away with it.

Setting boundaries and having yourself respect should always come first.

You tell him not to speak to you as if he is talking to a dog, if he can't agree to it then get rid of him.

[Lalarousse]

It depends of the situation.

if he had a bad day… or he’s angry at something it’s normal.

but if he’s like this a lot of times or most of the time, it’s not normal.

[Immie85]

Because he is an ass, he never learn how grown ups communicate. You accept it, he doesn’t respect you or see your qualities. You not told him it’s not right. Many reasons but need to at least let him know it upsets you.

[midnightmoon05]

Because it takes two to learn and grow in a respectful way and communicate in a loving manner.
did you ask him why he talks to you that way?

[ElizaPam]

Guys think it's ok to get rude with us and we're just supposed to live with it because we're girls

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Do you just assume that everybody on gag knows who your boyfriend is and how he behaves lol 😂 .

You just make a statement and people will be at your side and you are the victim and vilify him.

[inhua]

define bad tone.

even then it's still a matter of perspective.

[spartan55]

Vague, no context, little info, how do you expect anycl sort of answer here?

[RavVid]

Not enough info given. When he does, are you picking up on what a problem might be

[FilmGuy93]

I imagine that you probably do something that bothers him before he talks with you that way.

[HaveNoName]

Tells a lot about a person. Imagine how be would be if you were his wife. Because it does not get better after the knot.

[Anonymous]

Because your a whore and he doesn't respect you. Get some higher standards. Leave him and dont fuck loads of dudes and you should be ok. You have to love yourself first. If you did youbwould never put up with this shit

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you been a bad girl?

[Anonymous]

How are we supposed to answer this? I don't know what you do that annoys him. If you feel his behavior is unwarranted, and it has become a recurring problem, then break up with him.

[TallAnon]

We don't know the tone or situation. If you just slapped him in the face, a mad tone would be warranted.

[anon15]

Do you do anything to provoke him? If not dump him

[dustybiker]

Yeah… that wouldn’t happen twice to me.

[tzdc21]

Did you do or say anything to piss him off?

[Mafia24]

Because you're allowing him

[Asker]

I'm considering dumping him tbh

[Mafia24]

Aw perfect decision 😘😘