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Hii, we're dating now for almost a month, he was all lovey dovey to me at first and talked about our future together. Suddenly, few days ago when I soft launched him on my social medias, he suddenly turned cold towards me. I tried breaking up with him but he gives me reasons that he's with his father's construction, busy with work, he's sensitive about the weather and his recent alibi is that he'll be working on evenings throughout July. When I get lovey dovey with him now, he doesn't respond it back with flirty actions like he used to. I tried confronting him about this but he says I'm the only one. But he doesn't call me 'babe, baby, my love' anymore. Just a while ago he told me he's going to sleep, but after 30 minutes, he have seen my reply. And his reactions in Kakaotalk are madly increasing. And when I tell him I'm going to shower, he used to send me flirty emojis but now he's not doing it.

Am I overthinking? 😭 Please help me, guys. I'm crying literally.

My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?