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Most girls have a past. Why couldn’t they just pick well in the beginning? I get relationships are complicated but they go for red flags 🚩or ignore them and wonder why they got what they deserved? Going after the bad boy as they say.

Then afterwards they realise why no good men want to date them and struggle to take any accountability.

We don’t want what another men has had.

2/3 men under 30 are single in recent studies. I am single too.

I also wonder if girls are programmed by society to hate men. I mean it’s definitely a male negative culture we live in. Another factor is women earn money now, so is that what men were only valued for in the past?

When you meet girls it also appears like they don’t have any soul left or are just too self absorbed, or that they make no effort in themselves to be attractive to a man. Unaccountable or with bad behaviour

I don’t make effort in dating tbh, I don’t see why I should be the one making effort, women should come to me with all I am.

This Sunday/tomorrow I’m going on a dinner date/ I’ve been speaking to a girl for a week and she wants to meet. I don’t want to get my hopes up as then you just get disappointed BUTT:

She is really pretty, seems polite and nice and replies fast.
she doesn’t seem confident with guys, a sign she doesn’t have a past. I don’t want my girl to have been touched by another man, she has to be a virgin. I am confident in bed and big 🍆 and tall but I don’t want my woman touched. A woman should belong to one man only!

She also just likes chilling at home and doesn’t have many hobbies or interests - signs of a simple chill girl I can be myself with
She also dresses classy and tasteful not too crazy or anything.

I have a feeling she’s the type of girl that could help me in the future work on what I’ve got going on and be a team player. Like she will adapt more to my life.
She also seems happy to have a big family

We were dating back when we were in our late teens and we were both in love. Shit happens and drama and we broke up really badly, i moved to an other country etc etc.

There have been a couple of times in the past that she would drunk text me and the next day she would be cold or straight ignore me. In 2019 I went back to visit my family and friends and a mutual friend told me she wanted to pick me up from the airport but he was against it and stopped her.

We talked slightly through social in 2023 since I talk with her brother rather frequently and she was pissed at me cause a girl was flirting me a lot. Most likely she heard about it from her brother.

Fast forward to this year, she suddenly sent me a message in February we had a rather long conversation, we talked about our lives how it is going, she told me about her relationship of eight years and how bad it was etc etc.

Three days ago she sent me a new message and almost right away she started talking about sex and such. I told her that this kind of behavior is stupid and she should be more considerate of her boyfriend, then she told me she broke up with her a few days after we talked on February.

I confronted her about the rather sudden sexual topic and she replied this is the best way to grab the attention of men and I replied yeah if they are desperate, otherwise it feels stupid and I was seriously thinking of blocking her.

The nest day she was asking me to talk on the phone and she was worried I wouldn't want to cause she was drunk last night and she blew it. The call was around thee hours long and she was telling me she liked my straightforward attitude, my humour etc etc.

It was rather fun I have to admit but she was really reserved cause she was worried I would get annoyed and hang up.

The day she sent me a few pics and was trying to revive a dead fb group that we both belong and included me in a post.

That night I sent her a message if she wanted to talk and she was rather distant.

What is going on?

The male standard for attractiveness is just ludicrous. We gotta be tall, handsome, rich with status, muscular, funny/charming etc…

My main problem is if I try and get muscular the only thing I do is injure myself. I literally had to give up because I kept getting debilitating back issues.
I’ve be through quite a lot of talking stages and I just get ghosted.

The way I view it is to get a stunning girl you have to be a million times better than her to try and impress her yet pretty girls are so common. Also I’m not even sure if women want to be actual wives anymore or if it’s a thing of the past.