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Almost every man at work ignores me and doesn’t even look at me when walking past me and greeting me. It’s like I don’t even exist and when I talk to them they try to keep conversation short.
However when I dress a little bit more feminine everyone tries to make excuses to talk to me, one coworker always tries to flirt in front of his friends with me even though he dislikes me or thinks I’m boring.
These men are just as nice to other women regardless of their style. Does it mean these men don’t find my face pretty if I have to dress up just to be visible and treated like every other female coworker?

28F, yes I’m straight or if any other sexuality I’d be asexual. I download tinder 2 weeks ago & have been speaking to someone on it since. I took a chance & decided to not videochat/call him beforehand, lord I should’ve. He didn’t catfish me but I just got the vibe he is gay. He didn’t dress flamboyant, it was just the way he spoke. He seemed nice & after about 15 min I came to the realization that it’s tinder and I don’t owe him anything. The drinks took forever to come, I just told him I had a long day and something felt kinda off, it was nice to meet him, didn’t want him to waste his money on me & I dipped out. He was about to follow me out, I told him to stay put to make sure the waiter didn’t charge him but truthfully I didn’t want him to follow me to my car/look at my plate. He msged me after saying he wasn’t sure what happened & hoped I got home safe, I just deleted the app. Lesson learnt: moving fwd I’ll ALWAYS do a phone screening before meeting.