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A few weeks ago while I was casually on IG, I commented on a post, which had many likes, many people wrote to me privately, and sent me requests, some of which I accepted, I have a business and these opportunities are good to promote my products, long story short a man wrote to me, he seemed very respectful, gentleman and decent, he told me how he liked my comment and so on, I told him about my business and he seemed interested in my products, we talked about many topics such as current society , politics, and so on, but then he told me that he wanted me to sell him my shoes (heels), he told me that he liked my elegance a lot. I was very direct from the beginning and told him about my husband, and he told me that my husband is a very lucky man, but I didn't like something about him, he told me that he wanted me to take advantage of him monetarily, and honestly I felt uncomfortable and blocked him, yesterday I received a call from a European country, I immediately thought of him, how did he got my number? I was terrified, it gives me Joe Goldberg vibes, is this normal? is this guy an obsessed person?

He has a crush on me but I found out that his dream girls and his former crushes (he was obsessed with) were all tall skinny blondes while I am a short Asian girl.

I think he thinks I don’t like him because I ignored his obvious stares and now suddenly stopped. I hesitate to approach him because Im afraid that I’ll not be good enough and always Second best to him while he to me is the most handsome man I’ve seen and totally my type.

I also know that he doesn’t have much relationship experience and since I am also so different from his dream girl type I am afraid that he sees me as an experiment or a stepping stone to better women. What do you think and what should I do?