What’s wrong with girls nowadays?

[Anonymous]

My friend met a girl who he was obsessed over. And she seemed to love him by the looks of it too. Anyways, he recently told me that she ghosted him. Just never contacted him back. And I’m wondering what the heck is wrong this girl? I feel bad for him because he’s a really nice guy. And he’s probably the best she will ever do…. But not just her. Even going to bars, I feel like girls put so much more of a front

[Avicenna]

That's not some new development

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, dating these days definitely has its issues. But I wouldn't blame all girls or say any group is a certain way. Some thoughts:

- Ghosting definitely sucks, but people ghost for all kinds of reasons, not just girls. Could be her own stuff she's dealing with.

- Maybe she wasn't as into him as it seemed. Or changed her mind. Hard to say without knowing her side.

- Bars/apps definitely make fronts more common since there's tons of options. But real connections take opening up.

- Your boy will bounce back - he seems like a catch! But also, just cuz a girl doesn't want him doesn't mean "he's the best she'll ever do."

- Try not to put any gender on a pedestal - people are complex. We all got growing to do.

- Keep your head up, put yourself out there, see who you vibe with. One nice thing leads to another.

- Friends help each other through breakups, not slam the other person, you know? Show him bro love and support.

Overall I feel ya - dating culture has challenges. But best we can do is work on ourselves, be respectful to others, and have hope the right people come around! His time will come again for sure.

[boggboss]

Sounds like u guys where wrong in his love 4 her