Is groping guys (or lowering his pants) nowadays a recent trend?

[Anonymous]

Even though it doesn't occur as often as vice-versa and it's rarely talked about, it's been apparently a current trend. I'm guilty of doing that twice on a dare when I was a HS sophomore; both to a random guy at the gym and to my crush.

The random guy just smiled meanwhile my crush said nothing (he just walked away) but it was obvious he didn't like it. One of my friends did that too and some other girl lowered a guy's pants in front of his friends.

Obviously that was wrong. It's wrong. What sucks is the opposite wouldn't be seen as neither a joke nor a person trying to get your attention but as sexual harassment. Is this a recent trend nowadays?

Updates

+1 y

I'm going to admit that when I did that.. I already knew neither of them were gonna do anything in return. I knew they wouldn't report it either. I know I'm sound like a total hypocrite. I don't do that anymore though. It's still wrong.

[Anonymous]

I had one girl grope me before. She literally grabbed a handful of my dick n balls when I was in line going into a concert. I remember feeling surprised but that was it. I wasn't exactly mad or anything. However had she de pants'd me in public or something I would have been outraged.

[Tyrael]

Back in the day we'd say they got scanted or would dare you to scant someone, so it's been going on for at least 20-25 years. I don't think it's as popular now, but it was almost always guys doing it to other guys just for a laugh to embarrass them.

[ohshee]

I'm still not sure I'm following you but depending where I was and what was going on I would say I would like it. But I'm not sure on what your saying

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Some girl in Middle School was talking to this other girl and she was waving her hands around and no shit she accidentally rubbed her hand up my penis wow I didn't mind it but she apologized

[jizzyjay]

Like everything, it depends.
If welcomed or OK then w. e. but if its not then its not. Trick is to tell which is which without asking first. Sometimes u will fail. Just the nature of guessing.
Life without guessing would not be as fun.

[jizzyjay]

But every time it happened it was a really hot girl so i was cool with it

[jasco]

One if a girl did that, if i could react fast enough i slap ya. More then likely tho i just stand there confused then mad then be like damn it i can't do anything cause you a women and cause i am 18

[Anonymous]

How's that feminism working out for y'all. Seems like you only care about women's rights and fuck everyone else?

[Asker]

I added something on my update by the way.

[Asker]

It was wrong. No one deserves to get harassed. I was a dumb teen back then.

[Opinion Owner]

This mentality is why men don't like women. They are attracted to women. They want sex from women, but they don't like women. Men look at feminism as a lie and they are offended by women who perpetuate it. Men are no more evil than women, they are just different

[ColHathi]

No idea. I don't know anyone that has had that happen.

[chriscdi]

i hope so maybe ill run into a girl that will try to sexually assault me

[Anonymous]

Women are hypocrites.
They should be taught to be better.

[Asker]

It was indeed hypocritical. It's wrong to grope people. I can't believe we got away with it at the time; even if the guy didn't like it he didn't report it. Yet, if you did it... then it's already sexual harassment or even assault.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, everyone's personal space should be respected.
Some guy much might have a big dick and not care if a woman pantsed him in public.
Some other guy might be a grower and shriveled up. Getting exposed or groped could embarrass him to the point of suicide.

[OceanMelon]

I hope not

[Asker]

It's wrong to grope people. I find it unbelievable that we got away with it. Seems like it's been going on for some time recently.

[OceanMelon]

Yeah, I hope it ends