Why do guys like hoes nowadays?

[littlelady1234]

Guys why do you like hoes nowadays? I miss the old school days where a man would only respect a woman who respects herself. Nowadays men want to marry and be in long term commitments with hoes. WHat made you guys think like that? Its actually in our biologogy for a girl to be way more conservative and respectful with sleeping with any man. But nowadays men treat us all the same. Im not gonna lie i like being reserved but i HATE when guys think that a girl whos been everywhere or even just around the block is even close to the level as me. I dont want to sound conceited but its honesty. I dont like trashy women who have been around the block to get the same affection, respect, and attention as me. I know that sounds wrong but just listen do you really think a girl who's been everywhere deserves the same value and honor as a girl who hasn't and has class? Just my opinion but i absolutely hate that. There was a guy that I really liked and I thought he was perfect then I found out he was getting at some hoes. And not just in a "I want to sleep with her" kind of way but that he actually liked her. That broke my heart. I thought I was special. But then again you never know. Just wanted to know you're opinion and if anyone thinks the same. Thanks.

[ananias55]

I think it's because with a girl that sleeps around its usually less effort and drama to sleep with them and dating is easier because sex is an easy way to bait and hook a guy.

I'm not saying conservative girls are worse. But some of them tend to play games and others won't touch you unless you decide to get married. Which is in itself is a bad deal for most guys.

Don't change who you are for other people, but don't get upset that men of value have options, and other women throwing themselves at them.

The reason conservative women are not that sought after nowadays is because they're in the minority. In the past that wasn't the case. Keep looking, but don't throw people away for sleeping around, if that's what you're looking for, only ugly guys who can't get any are going to be your best option. Unless you're into that, you do you.

[littlelady1234]

I mean im conservative and I want to wait til marriage but honestly I just want to wait until I've been with a guy for a while and i know he loves me. Most people would think thats a long time which it seems like nowadays but thats just me. I think so long as me and the guy really genuinely love each other than thats all that should matter to me.

Also do you think those men of value genuinely like those girls (hoes) or do they just want to have some kind of fling. Like the guy i liked was super nice to me and he was everything i dreamed of then i found out he talked to other girls and they were just hoes (sorry to be so blunt) and that lowered my self esteem. It made me feel like an option. Dont know if thats wrong.

And one last thing, this might sound crazy but I actually like men who have been around.. I don't know why opposites attract. I actually dont mind that a guy has been around the block before or worse I just dont like when they fall in love with them thats all. I don't know what it is with me but i think thats just our nature in human biology.

[ananias55]

You have every right to wait and do whatever you want. Its your life but yes, sex is always an option to a man of quality and he will always be seduced by someone. Never underestimate how powerful the allure of a woman is, we've had wars over women.

I'm sorry that happened to you, but you have to understand, guys that are desirable are always going to have multiple women chasing him. And because of that, he subconsciously gives out appealing vibes and virtues. For instance he isn't desperate, he's not needy and he knows how to look good. (At least for most of them) and it sucks feeling like an option, I've been there. And it sucked. But to him you were. Because he is obviously had other options.

And no its normal to like men with experience. That goes hand in hand with why you find him attractive. And its not just opposites that are attracted to that, its a universal attraction for women. In fact I've never met a woman who is only attracted to virgins. That is a Unicorn.

And it is your nature, no one faults you for that. A guy like that usually falls in love with a hoe because she clicks with all or at least most of his sexual kinks. That's a huge allure with easy women.

[littlelady1234]

Like I really thought this guy liked me and he was serious but i didn't gie him the attention he deserved. It was too much I had anxiety depression and an eating disorder i didn tknow what to say or do. Then I found out he was talking to a whole bunch of other girls while he still liked me and i liked him. And some of them, guess what, were hoes. And it seemed like he wanted to get in a realtionship with them. I thougt if guy just wanted a hoe he would just sleep with them I didn't think they would get in a relationship with them. He was talking to this one girl who used to be my friend but who a long time ago she was talking and dating the guy i liked behind my back knowing that I liked him ( this was before i started liking this new guy that my post is about). And so once I really liked this new guy he was sucha gentleman. he seemed very conservative and I thought he head morals but then he started talking to her. My question is did he really like her or was he just trying to get into her pants. Cause if he really was just trying to have sex then why was he trying to get in a relationship with her as well?

[Wang-Lin1942]

Lol I’m telling you just keep doing what ur doing those whores aren’t even really in the same league as you.

[btbc92]

Because even back then they had the whore mentality, they are just happy they can get it for "Free" from women who aren't waiting for marriage. They are who they attract. So don't go after those men. It's not always the woman. So don't pay attention to men who make excuses for other men's bad behavior. Many can't even keep not 1 woman in his life either. Better to be single and alone than with all of that hell. Wait for people who are sharing your values. They are around. But they're just as cautious as you are. When your light shines you will attract them to you. Just keep moving on with life. You have to learn to weed them out and don't rush. BE A FRIEND and make sure you be careful who you're being friends with. You owe them no explanation for what you do. That is what I had learned at 18 years old. And by 10 I learn not everybody is right for you. You deserve a man who wants to love you. These people who don't wait don't love you. Period.

[modelUN242]

Guys who like hoes are hoes themselves. If you attract bad people, you're probably bad yourself.

[littlelady1234]

Me? Well he was nice to me and treated me like a lady but he also treated other girls like that even when they werent not trying to sound rude.

[modelUN242]

Oh okay, well your situation sucks, sorry to hear. And pretty sure, because most women whore themselves out so a good girl would have to work much harder in proving she's not a whore, unfortunately. I can kind of relate to you.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't know where you live or what kind of guys you hang with, but you need to change something in your life. If you are surrounded by guys who love hoes, then you have surrounded yourself with the wrong people. There are plenty of guys who want to date a lady and not a tramp.

[littlelady1234]

That give me some hope. Thanks.

[The_Maphio]

I have no idea.
Even though, at least from my personal standpoint, I can assure you that I would never spend more than one night with most of todays' chicken heads.
Pump and dump is one of our best techniques for girls that we deem sexy but insignificant.
And I suspect it will remain a gold standard for the millenniums to come.

And even if you actually are better than them skanks, never come out with "they are nowhere near my level". We tend to take that as snotty and would rather bang 4 dumb broads than one of you.

[littlelady1234]

Well you're messed up cause there was no really other way to put it. I just happedened to be very blunt. even though I didn't want to sound rude, as you can see i my question i said "i know this sounds wrong" or "i hope that does not sound conceited" i was really just being straightfoward. I had no other way of explaining how i feel without being blunt

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I completely agree with you, but... I still have to be a nice person and be kind to everyone. They're people. They're human beings. I don't want to be an asshole to anyone. But yeah, of course I still like [girls like you] better.

[littlelady1234]

And I completely agree. Im not saying be disrespectful to other women just because- that sounds rude. but im saying like most girls like this aren't prioritized anymore like people lost values and respect. im not saying a girl has to be squeaky clean but at least have some morals and self respect is all

[Jamie05rhs]

@littlelady1234 I have wanted to date and marry a virgin since I took the virginity pledge myself when I was 11.
By the time I was an adult, I realized that most girls weren't virgins anymore. But I never compromised on my standards. The only problem is it's hard to know where to look to find a good woman. That's why I kind of gave up -- not on finding a virgin, but on finding a woman in general. I never ask girls out because there's no way of knowing if they're a virgin or not and I don't want to embarrass them.

[littlelady1234]

Wel i dont think you should ask a girl if she's a woman as that might embarrass her or may make her think you're a sexual predator. However if you want to find a good woman thats not hard you just have to look carefully how she dresses and behaves. If she's showing too much then more than likely thats a hoe. However if she dresses conserved but cute then more than likekly thats a good girl. Also you need to find out where theyre gonna be. If you go to the club a lot you'll mostly find hoes (not all of them because sometimes good girls go just to have nothing crazy though), however if you go to churc, the library, or somewhere in school you're more than likely to find one. Good luck out there hope this helps

[littlelady1234]

I meant to say i dont think you should as a girl if she's a virgin. sorry that was a typo

[Jamie05rhs]

That's okay; I knew what you meant.

"or may make her think you're a sexual predator.". Yeah, that's an interesting point. I had never thought of that before until just recently, because I discovered that there are some guys who want to have sex with virgin women just because they're virgins. They don't want to have a relationship with them; just sex. That's really disgusting to me.

Okay, but everyone always says that we're not supposed to judge women by the way that they dress.

[littlelady1234]

I think thats wrong. I think people are jus bieng biased truth is most hoes wear revealing clothing. But it depends on waht type of clothing. Shorts and a crop top although do show some skin are not very revealing. Push up bras that almost show your whole breast like cardi b, nick minaj, etc do are revealing clothing. You dont have to listen to what everyone is saying just trust your own instincts. many of the girls who dont like people to judge others on the way they dress is becuase they are hoes themselves. they are hoes who sleep around and dont want to get caught. They use the term"feminism"just to excuse their ways. I literally see girls who advertise themselves on social media. literally their job is to sell sex whether its Onlyfans, stripping, modelign very revealing clothers who get offended when you tell them their job is obviously to show. They say "why dont men have respect anymore?" like literally a slut is gonne ask "why dont men have respect anymore?" like youve got to be joking! ANyways dont listen to social media listen to yourself.

[Jamie05rhs]

So you think that's just PC (politically correct) talk?

[littlelady1234]

what do you mean politically correct? Like is everything accurate? No this is a generalization but it is a stong one

[Jamie05rhs]

www.britannica.com/topic/political-correctness

[Jamie05rhs]

The dictionary explains it better than I can; sorry.

[OfMiceandMen]

I like classy respectable women that don't put out to every guy they come across or get involved with for a few weeks at a time. May as well be a doormat.

There's nothing wrong with withholding sex these days to make sure the other person is in it for the right reason. I have a lot of respect for women that value themselves in this regard.

[Anonymous]

What does it matter where she has been if she gives me affection, respect and attention when she is with me?
I don't give a shit about how special a woman thinks she is, it's about what she does for me.

You aren't better than the hoes, that's why.

[littlelady1234]

To you Im not, maybe to other people I am. Everyone has a different mentality. By saying im better doesn't mean that im self righteous or entitled it just means i have more self respect. Yes self respect is different for everybody but if you aren't trashy or have no morals then i think you deserve props. Im not saying you have to be a virgin but just overall respectful in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Men do not respect hoes, but they'll fuck them. But when it comes time for a serious relationship we want a good woman.

It's no different than women and "bad boys".

[littlelady1234]

Yeah but their was a guy that I really liked and he had hella respect for hoes. LIke I dont expect him to be a jerk to them or whatever but he treated them the way you wold expect a decent woman to be treated it just sucked cause i really liked him. Now i dont know what to do

[Lone_wolf122]

Cuz most girls are hoes these days so deal with what is available i guess

[littlelady1234]

Thats prbably a good explanation.

[Hawner]

I don't like hoes, as you put it. I am not interested in one that waits till marriage either. I understand sex is a part of a relationship, so I don't expect a virgin; but one that just goes around sleeping with guys without a care is too much.

[Harleyguy]

Probably because guys are getting sick of the games. I know I did. I tend to go a free older girls now. You girls not all play to many games. They are arrogant and it’s just a turn off. I don’t go for hoes my self but maybe guys feel the same and just want a hook up and move on.

[tzdc21]

They like hoes for sex and that's it. But I promise you, if they had a choice, they will NEVER wife her.

[888theGreat]

Because they are raised by ho's . Same reason people sell drugs.

[sheikalana]

Do they? I thought they were into good women.

[littlelady1234]

Thats what they say but if you look carefully at the girls that theyre with, what do you see? Hoes! And not just in a "sleeping around" kinda way but in a solid relationship, introduce them to their mom, kinda way

[Dan_5001]

The ones that get friendzoned or aren't that attractive physically 💪do.

[sheikalana]

I'm not a hoe dear.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Every hoe think they are 'special"

[littlelady1234]

Are you sugesting me?

[Anonymous]

Only the losers do with no self morals

[Wang-Lin1942]

Lol they aren’t even close to you

[emperor90]

Becsuse they want to