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Surprisingly men have also done that for ages. More women baby-trap but this is an example of a man doing this, even after the woman didn't want kids:

https://atlantic.ctvnews.ca/man-convicted-for-poking-holes-in-condoms-loses-appeal-1.1099713

Is it worse if a man deliberately gets us pregnant without our consent (he wants the baby, it's his plan) than if the woman babytraps him without consent. What's worse? Both of them are doing something in common, bringing a baby without their partner's consent.

Both involved a cruel person stealing someone's market value. Men and women are obviously valued differently. When it comes to love and relationships or marriage, what's worse?

- A man that promises the world and purposely wastes the woman's time and years. Then when she gets to a certain age, she gets ditched for someone younger. Not only she doesn't get those years back but she's depressed about possibly not being able to have kids anymore. The guy destroyed her years and her motherhood. We are afterall valued for our youth and fertility. Men don't care too much about our careers.

- A golddigger makes it harder for the rest of us to find a good family-oriented man. She uses him with charm but somehow he doesn't realize what she really is like. She got what she wanted and then wants to ditch him for no reason (just that she got bored, that's it), just for monetary incentive. She gets half of what poor man's hard work, destroying his market value he worked hard for.

I really sympathize with both cases. No one deserves getting their market value destroyed by cruel narcissists. Though personally I think the first case is worse. Money can eventually be earned back even if it takes years or longer. However, once we can't have babies anymore, that's not ever gained back, literally never. If our motherhood is taken away, it's forever gone. Money isn't forever gone.

So i know some of you will judge but really want to know what to do and opinions if he would come back

So me and my partner or now ex was together for 6 years on and off
We have a 1 yr old baby girl together and moved in together
Thing is.. he recently got into drugs and sometimes if he gets angry or stressed he would runaway from home and take it
Then few days later he always comes running back
This happens all the time within the last years.. its a pattern

So last weekend we got into an argument but before he went to work he said bye and he will message when he's there
And he did message
But then he never came home
Its been a week now

Im staying with my parents with my little one right now
And when i was going back to our home i saw that he came back home but never bothered to contact me or see our little one

Usually he would call or text but never did

Is he done for real now?