We have been madly in love for the past 5 months. We are so attached that we can't go 2 days without talking to each other. He wants a baby with me and constantly tells me he wants me to be the mother of his children. He says he wants to propose. Then now he says that we are sexually incompatible because he wants to have sex 2 to 3 times daily while I only want to have sex once daily. He is a sex maniac and addict. Now he doesn't want to pursue our relationship any further.
My heart is in him. He is a part of me. Letting him go would be like him ripping half my heart and running away with it. I would literally feel like I have lost half my heart which won't ever fully heal.
I am just very turned off that he just wants to give up on me over such a dumb reason. I understand sex is very important to him but he isn't willing to fight for our relationship to try to make it work , while knowing how hard it is to walk away after how deep our love has gotten.
If 2 people loved each other enough, they would do everything it takes to make things work. I even said we can have an open marriage where he is free to have sex with other people. He said he is open to that but not entirely sure.
As heartbroken that I am, I am just very turned off by the fact that he has put up absolutely no fight to keeping our relationship. It was like as if he was ready to throw me away as soon as he found out we had different sex drives
he divorced his ex wife over the very same reason: she couldn't keep up with his sex drive. He even has 2 kids that he is no longer in contact with.
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Self absorbed, narcissistic prick. Sorry, he’s not interested in your heart. He is only interested in wet meat and puts the pressure on YOU for being unable to meet his demand, with no level of compromise or commitment. What kind of man abandons his children because mom isn’t emptying his nuts fast enough? That should be a huge red flag. As a father myself, I can’t even fathom the thought. What a joke.
That’s not love at all. And it’s unfortunate you give “half your heart” to a person who doesn’t care if yours even exists. Cut your losses and run. Your self worth is more valuable than that.
He sounds like an unreasonable nutjob. Why didn't he mention his thing sooner? Smells like BS.
Only he would know