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Dating is a numbers game. And after having run the calculations for the numbers game, I've had to concede that I don't have a realistic chance any more. I have a life expectancy of only 50>55yrs; I'm projected to live for another 20>25yrs. And I can't possibly manage to meet any more than 3 new females on average per day. That's a maximum limit of roughly 22,000 females, over the course of my remaining lifespan. Then, adding my bare minimum level of extra parameters: I'm looking for a 16-35yo (16%) single heterosexual (28%), who'd be willing to consider forming a new relationship at the time I meet her (23%), and open to both inter-racial (24%) & inter-religious (15%) relationships. With a personality type compatible with my own (1.4%), an IQ over 100 (52%); and ideally, who isn't overweight or anorexic (29.7%).

Even at this point, the odds already stand at 57:1 against me ever meeting even a single female, between now and the day I die, who'd meet all of these perfectly reasonable criteria- even with those non-requests, such a girl would literally be one in a million. And that'd be without having any standards whatsoever regarding desired personality traits and qualities, shared interests, shared life goals, attractiveness or sexual compatibility. Factor all of these in as well, and I've calculated that the lifetime odds against me meeting such a woman skyrocket to 1/737500; less than fifth of my lifetime odds of being killed by a lightning bolt. Per person, the odds would be one in over 16 billion- in conclusion, there's only a 23.3% chance that there's a single female in existence across the globe who'd meet the criteria required for me to be able to have a fulfilled mutual relationship with her. With odds like that, what's the point? Should I just give up? Shouldn't we all just give up? And if not, why not?

Here some good advice for guys that find themselves friendzoned. Friendship with females is an aberration and must be shunned by masculine men of today who are cognizant of the realities of modern sex relationship. And as an alternative, I propose a basic system where you limit your interactions with a given woman to a single category without muddling the lines between them. The categories are:
1. Women who you are already in an intimate relationship with.
2. Women who you want to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with.
3. Women who you must communicate with out of necessity, whether it be co-workers or the cashier at a grocery store.
4. Optional: Dependable and trustworthy women who are able to provide equal or greater value than what you offer her, or has a special value you can’t get from anyone else. A woman of this caliber is rare, and even if you find one, you must tread carefully. I got scalped by at least two women whom I thought deserved to be in this category only to have them talk shit behind my back and throw me under the bus later on. Right now, I only have couple of women in this category. And even then, the've proven themselves countless times as true blue loyal friends.
5. Do not remain friends with an ex who seeks friendship to maintain all the benefits she had with you while you were together minus the sex while she dates various guys. Be friendly but move on she's not your problem.