Girls put guys in the Friendzone because?

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Here some good advice for guys that find themselves friendzoned. Friendship with females is an aberration and must be shunned by masculine men of today who are cognizant of the realities of modern sex relationship. And as an alternative, I propose a basic system where you limit your interactions with a given woman to a single category without muddling the lines between them. The categories are:
1. Women who you are already in an intimate relationship with.
2. Women who you want to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with.
3. Women who you must communicate with out of necessity, whether it be co-workers or the cashier at a grocery store.
4. Optional: Dependable and trustworthy women who are able to provide equal or greater value than what you offer her, or has a special value you can’t get from anyone else. A woman of this caliber is rare, and even if you find one, you must tread carefully. I got scalped by at least two women whom I thought deserved to be in this category only to have them talk shit behind my back and throw me under the bus later on. Right now, I only have couple of women in this category. And even then, the've proven themselves countless times as true blue loyal friends.
5. Do not remain friends with an ex who seeks friendship to maintain all the benefits she had with you while you were together minus the sex while she dates various guys. Be friendly but move on she's not your problem.

JustCallMeLeon · Accepted Answer

-Because they just dont want to fk you.
-Because they are currently hunting another deer.
-Because you won't make a fking CLEAR and STRAIGHTFORWARD move, so they just assume you dont look at the sexually.

To be honest, every time I didn't make a move, or made my intentions clear FROM THE START, i ended up watching my prey get eaten by another wolf, which in most cases was below me in almost every aspect but MADE A FKING MOVE. Lets face it guys. 90% of the time we bring this to ourselves. Saying or texting something like "i want us to be something more than friends" or "i really like you, and i dont mean only as a friend" is freaking EASY! Cmon!

DarkAngek · Accepted Answer

I am laughing with opinions of women like "we are not like men" or "because women have feelings". Seriously? The ONLY fucking thing in friendzone is that a girl put a guy there cause he meets many criterias to be an ideal boyfriend but his looks is ugly for her. I doupt VERY VERY VERY much if any girl would friendzoned her ideal man in the outside because he had a character opposite of their ideal.
Just damn... some girls are even liars to themselfs.

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

I don't "friendzone" anyone. I tell these mofos that it's best we never talk after they ask me out because it's uncomfortable being friends with someone who rejected you I imagine.

But you know what? Very few guys are willing to just "let everything go", and they insist on remaining "friends" with you. And then the woman gets labeled the bad guy. I'm the one who's evil because I didn't give him a chance. It's assumed I offered my friendship as a consolation prize and to keep him at an arms distance. But that's not always the case.

Women don't put men in the "friendzone", most men put themselves in there and some even refuse to leave.

1truekhaleesi · Accepted Answer

One time I friendzoned a guy because he never made a move on me. So I just thought, "okay. We'll just be friends then." Turns out he did like me but he never made a move so I assumed he didn't like me. By the time he did ask me out, he already in my friend zone because he never made a move, forcing me to see him as friends and nothing more. Its like he put himself there.
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Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

Or we just don't want a romantic/sexual relationship with a guy. That leaves being friends, or nothing at all - personally I'd like friends as there are some amazing people out there which by these standards means he's friendzoned? That's his choice to stay or leave

xxmamichulaxx · Answer

Girls put men into the friendzone because they aren't attracted to them. A person with good qualities that you dont want to fuck is usually just a friend. Same reason a guy would friendzone the ugly but super nice girl friend he has from work , she's nice but he's not remotely attracted to her , why is this so hard to understand?

Anonymous · Answer

I have never friend zoned anyone unless you count "friendzoning" as being friends with someone of the opposite gender and not being interested in anything more then friendship but that to me is just being friends. It's a 2 way street and takes work to be good friends if either party is unwilling to put in the work it won't worth regardless of what the reasons are.

Narts · Answer

if she friendzones you she's not into you. friendzone is a bullshit term for people who where rejected very politely 😂

AthleticMom · Answer

OTHER for now the concept of you is best served in another category but someday that might all change Friend grew up with this guy who always thought her a pest.. until she blossomed

beccaboo2 · Answer

Most guys bring it on themselves. If someone rejects you, you should drop them immediately. I have never friendzoned a guy but I have had guys try to put themselves in it. Usually, I just try to distance myself from them.

Belgie · Answer

They don't put guys in the friend zone. Every guy in the zone walked into it of his own dumb free will.

Browneye57 · Answer

Yup. Very good.
The moral of the story, don't waste your time with a validation queen. And no girl is gonna be your best friend - a guy friend is way more reliable, and a lot more fun.

I wouldn't take off on a bike tour with a girl unless I was doing her. The guys are way more fun to ride with.

FatherJack · Answer

WHY do guys let themselves be " zoned " ? If she is NOT attracted to you , then move on , a man has to ruthlessly drop her , or suffer mental torture. The friendzone is like a supermax security prison... you are NOT escaping !!

0112358 · Answer

A is the main one though it's not simply looks. Rather the overall matrix of what makes a man desireable in her mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Reasons why I do it.
*I am not certain of what I want myself. And are also overthinking situations.
*I get a lot of attention from boys I don't like. I don't friendzone them really, cause we're not friends after that, but it goes by the same act. It's usually straight forward.
*I don't find them attractive. Most guys that contact me are usually the ones who are very high on themselves, and that is a huge turn-off. They also have big status. I don't want that either.

dolemite68 · Answer

cuz they are addicted to male attention even if its from guys they're not attracted to. I rarely think a guy is genuinely an attractive girl's friend just for the sake of being her friend, he usually can't muster up the courage to seal the deal. I think girls are generally pretty delusional about the intentions of their male "friends" there are exceptions tho

rushthesand · Answer

1. Because she doesn't like him in a romantic way.
2. Because she likes someone else.
3. Because he assumes there's a relationship or "thing" going on between them when in reality there isn't anything.

DaddiesLittleToy · Answer

The "friendzone" isn't a woman's fault. If you like a girl tell her. If she doesn't like you back move on. Simple

ThisDudeHere · Answer

It's odd how you overxplained an issue and yet got it wrong anyway. There's no reason to not have female friends at all - they're just people you like to chill with. If your only interaction with females is for sex or relationships then that's your own path.
Anywho, if one does not want to be friendzoned, just refuse to be her friend after she has stated that she wants nothing romantic or sexual with you. Simple.

Women do not friendzone men, men LET themselves be friendzoned by women.

JDavid25 · Answer

I don't think the friendzone really exist much.. Either you are attracted to somebody or you ain't.. The "friendzone" is just a mental imprisonment made by the person who was put in it.. It's their imprisonment because they can either accept that the person don't like them like that, and build a great friendship, or just be tortured by the fact that they can't be with that person until they either move on or become obsessed with something they can't have..

Anonymous · Answer

Because they like them as friends but aren't attracted to them or doesn't have any romantic feelings towards them.

RealLifeSnorlax · Answer

Because- 1) you're there if she needs finacial help 2) strings you along if her relationship goes to shit  3) to fuck with you

Anonymous · Answer

I only friend zoned guys when I'm unsure if he's just a player or want something serious and when I'm not sure if he likes me back. Still I don't get why some guys think it's bad being friend zoned, because I can pick a guy out of the friendzone in an minute. He's not stuck there forever, at least not when it's my friendzone. Sometimes I also want to get to know the person better before I get into an relationship with him

sedrftvgyhujik · Answer

There's something very wrong if your paying for everything for your friend that happens to be a girl.

victoriameliegray · Answer

maybe values wise or ambitions wise we may be different. That's what really matters to me. he can make me laugh and be a gentleman, but if our ambitions and values are different, then I'd probs not date him and only keep him as a good friend.

HarryJBenton · Answer

The math is real simple. Girls can't date more than one guy without being called a slut. Obviously they're going to date the good looking alpha male. Anyone else is friendzoned by default.

Eugene · Answer

Because asides from actual tampons, emotional tampons are required as well.

natured · Answer

Maybe, because usually girls are more able to distance themselves emotionally, and have a low testosterone level rather than guys, so usually men just SEE BOOBS and they freak out,

Imhotep99 · Answer

Even if she wants to keep the guy around, he shouldn't stay.

sodababe · Answer

I only friend zone people if they like me but I know I don't like them back?

Dim1213 · Answer

You forgot an important option.  It is that a guy freind is to valuable to her to risk try a relationship with.

CrystalChild · Answer

who hurt you, iraqveteran666?

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

If they have a small cock.

ayerithsky · Answer

jesus, why can't we just be friends?

Anonymous · Answer

guys do it to themselves

COCOCHANEL · Answer

a lack of physical attraction

Anonymous · Answer

They don't find them attractive is number 1

cupidkisses · Answer

because of not having any feelings

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say because they don't find them attractive

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