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Me and my girlfriend have been together 2 years. We’ve struggled with many things especially our sexuality. Our sex life hasn’t been the best, I’ve tried so hard to make her want it and nothing. These past 2 months we’ve been fighting and only had sex once.

For the past 2 weeks we’ve been trying to work on our relationship. She told me all these sex moves she’s gonna give me on my birthday. Today Christmas Day was my birthday and she refused to be intimate. She said to me “all you care about is sex”. Yet she’s the one who started grabbing my genitalia’s just to refuse.

I was so mad I went and had sex with a nurse who gave her number when I was in the hospital. I don’t agree with cheating but my girlfriend deserved it. Also, I plan on breaking up with her when the holidays are over!

Over the years I’ve seen plenty of guys (myself included) gripe about women (especially western women). To a certain extent lots of our grievances are justified considering what feminism has done to western culture.

I have and always agreed with the premise of giving opportunities to women in traditionally male dominated spheres. But as feminism evolved (or should I say devolved) it now more often enables women to be their worst vs. be their best. Usually to the expense of men too but ultimately to the unhappiness and misery of women themselves

With all the said I fully believe there is a deeply engrained evolutionary reason why women tend to be much more selfish in dating.

There was a long time in history women had to use their sexuality to their advantage for both self-preservation and protection of their children. They had fewer opportunities then men and also aren’t as physically strong hence they had to make to with what they had to survive (e. g. manipulation vía sexual attraction). This also a reason why they cared much more about a man’s wealth and prominence. It would ensure her well being and increased survival.

Nowadays in western culture most if not all that bs female manipulation is no longer necessary. Women are not only given ample opportunity to make money but encouraged and supportive via college admissions and scholarship processes. Corporations often want to hire women over men to look “diverse”. The “wage gap” is a proven myth.

Despite the equal opportunities there a DNA instincts that still influence behavior to be more picky with men and to use their sexuality for their own one way benefits.

But we got to deal with this the same way you deal with a sociopath (not saying all women are sociopaths). A sociopath at default is incapable of feeling remorse, guilt, etc. Yelling at them won’t change anything. Instead you have to interact with them carefully. Same with how to deal with women. Love them but be very careful to trust them.

I love the Sexuality question section on GAG. I'm quite disappointed if there's fewer and fewer contributors to Sexuality and similarly to the Dating sections and so on. Or Romance sections on GAG. For Q's and A's (questions and answers).