No.
Literally everything you said is incorrect.
1. There is no difference between cheating and polyamory, at that point you are just auto defaulting to getting cheated on by multiple people, and it will feel much worse.
2. Most men don't cheat, and most men don't want multiple women. You only think otherwise because the type you are attracted to is the type that cheats. Stop going for "bad boys". They are almost entirely scum. Humans are naturally monogamous, its why monogamy and marriage is commonly accepted by the general public.
3. Men dump women who are not faithful to them unless the guy is the type to just want casual sex, but those people are losers and are not very common.
4. If you think people need to accept reality, you should start with yourself, and get out of that fantasy land you built in your head.
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If you believe the studies and surveys, the numbers say that roughly 25% of men in some form of a "committed relationship" admit to cheating, but that between 30 to 40% of married men admit to cheating. Still, that's less than "most men", but a number that women don't want to accept or think about.
Just to be clear, an open relationship and a polyamorous relationship are not the same thing. The way to avoid heartbreak and deceit is to be on the exact same page when it comes to what is acceptable in your relationship with another, or with a group of others. Before you enter into any sort of open sexual relationship, everyone better be sure they can handle each other having sex with someone else and still feel cared for, wanted and essentially loved. You might start out thinking you can handle it and find out you can't.
Sounds like you possibly have traumas that need to be worked out in therapy. You see your family members having broken relationships , so you assume everyone else’s relationships are like this. Lowering your standards because you think it can take away heart break doesn’t exist. Poly relationships are still structured and you can still experience heart break and jealousy, especially if you click with one person to the point where you can see yourselves being individually together.
No, polyamory only increases the likelihood of those things.
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Nope. Emotions are still involved. In fact, especially so in polyamory (as opposed to consensual non monogamy). Any time emotions are involved, you can have heartbreak and you can have deceit with anything. So polyamory may work for some but it is not the solution to heartbreak and deceit.
No, in fact institutionalized monogamy brings many benefits to men.
By the way, today's society is not monogamous, serial monogamy through divorce and remarriage is essentially promiscuity vertically over time rather than horizontally in the present.
Well no😅 a lot of People are just naturally. really jealous and knowing your partner is sleeping with someone else will destroy them emotionally. Its not for everyone and only a few people can handle an open relationship.
Men like a woman more when she is not faithful to him? no, most men don't want a ho. Even cheaters usually don't want to get cheated, only polyamory men want is a FFM polyamory.
It is not that simple.
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