Is it wrong to encourage women to polyamory to avoid heartbreak and betrayal?

[Cherrylicious]

It's safe to say that men aren't monogamous regardless of what they say they're actions contradict their words each time. I personally believe that women who commit to monogamy are setting themselves up for failure only to get screwed over and played because we're always expecting the fairytale prince charming who is handsome, loving, caring, attentive, loyal and faithful and who will marry and carry them to their castle them and will love and be only be with them for the rest of there lives and to never get bored with them and won't lie and cheat and fuck their exes, baby mamas, co-workers, "friends" etc.

Men are incapable of love, loyalty and commitment as its NOT in their nature because they often separate sex from love and can easily sleep with a woman without catching feelings. They won't admit they like variety and are sexual lust driven creatures because they will still cheat on a woman no matter how good she treats him, how much she maintains her appearance, how good she cooks and cleans or how amazing she is in bed HE WELL STILL CHEAT but when I tell women to pursue polyamory for these reasons to stop seeing women make a fool of themselves, I get accused of man hating and man bashing for exposing the truth about men and to treat men accordingly. What's the issue here 🤷‍♀️?

[ImNoOne111]

The issue is your mindset. I have never cheated in my life, many others are like me. Real men don't cheat. Men aren't built for monogamy? I don't care. It's a commitment which both sides agree to. If you can't, then don't. So, the people you talked to were right, you indeed are abusing the default support the society gives you to bash men, so you aren't exposing the truth, you are spreading lies. Wish you get to see a real man, but with this mindset it won't work

[ChiTown33]

Men are VERY capable of love and commitment. Provided 1. You choose the right ones. 2. You put forth as much effort as they do. Nothing worth having ever comes easy.
I have 4 sisters, all married and still married, ranging from 17-28 years. My parents were married all there life.
So in actuality I see a lot more long term success than failure.

[midnightmoon05]

You will live by what you believe.
My standard is loyalty, commitment… those who didn’t want the same as me… they are off the street.
I have a loving, caring husband … that’s what I seek and that’s what I got.

[crossdressingrihno]

Honestly this both incorrect and grossly out of touch with reality.

Hate men All you want hell hate me specifically if you wish because in the end I don't think a woman who San and worth dating will think all men are evil cheaters incapable of love.

[Reaper1985]

I can't speak for others but I personally won't sleep with someone unless we're in a exclusive relationship for at least 90 days. now that might not always mean I fully love my partner but I do at least have positive feelings for them other then sexual desire.

[Shamalien]

Don’t ever listen to this girl. If you chase chad then ya, you’ll get cheated on. If you pull your head out your ass and consider some regular dudes most of em won’t cheat. I have never and would never cheat

[billmunch]

TBH, I've never had a problem with the women I date having sex with other guys, so i prefer poly.

[krin_m]

As a poly-amorous person myself, let me assure you that it is no different than a monogamous relationship in terms of heart-break. So do what is natural without any unrealistic expectations.

[slatyb]

It's "safe to say", but it's not true.

[Xtendable]

She likes the lifestyle too

[KrakenAttackin]

Hilarious 😆😆😆.