Girlfriend broke up to figure out sexuality and to get life together. Was I really enough?

[mason1s]

Me and my girlfriend had probably the most peaceful and understanding breakup and relationship she just wasn’t very open and very depressed and wouldn’t tell if there was something i can do to change. I always have my self doubts so maybe i would bug her to much trying to perfect myself. She still loves me. She still wants to be friends. she says she has just been thinking about women a lot and has a lot of legal and mental health issues going on right now. she is my first love and i want to eventually be able to get her back and she still isn’t even completely sure it’s the right decision but it’s a done decision.

[SecretsofKB]

Okay so I dated a woman that did something along the lines of what your ex just did. She was dating a guy and broke up with him because she was in the midst of figuring out her sexuality. She told me she felt like shit for doing that to him, but she was very unhappy and the lack of clarity she had was affecting her mental health.

She wanted to stay friends, but it was hard for him. They were amicable and I did actually get to meet him a few times a few years later and he seemed a lot more okay with it.

My point is, that it truly isn't about you. It's not that you weren't enough or were enough... she just needs to figure this out for her sake. You did nothing wrong and there is no fault to be placed on you. Don't think this is your fault... because it isn't!!!

You're only 18. You feel old and wise at this point... I know, I've been there. But the next few years of your life will involve a lot of changes and growing up and you'll have the chance to meet a lot more girls. Your dating life has just begun. Hang in there!!!

[LazerBean]

A lot of people and relationships just really aren't that deep at your age and to whatever compulsive thing they feel at the moment. And at the moment, she currently feels like she wants something other than you. I would say don't waste your time with her, and don't date unless you are actively vetting and looking to find a permanent, legitimate commitment.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her not knowing who/what she is.

[Avicenna]

It probably had nothing to do with you

[KrakenAttackin]

If she doesn't know her own sexuality, let the crazy bitch go.

[In_Trance]

She wants to smash other guys